After spending three decades with the only man I thought I would ever love from the age of 14 to 44, my divorce ushered me into a season where I found myself facing the prospect of dating for the first time in my entire life. I had no idea how to date, but what I did know was where to get the help I needed to put it all together. With coaching from my therapist, a good book, and just following my own intuition, I created a dating strategy that yielded a good man on the fifth date I would ever go on. A man who loved me unconditionally for who I was. A good man who worked hard and loved even harder. A humble man who listens and cares how he makes me feel. He even apologizes when he hurts me, helps me with my laundry and cooks dinner more often than I do! How did I attract such  an aligned and amazing partner with little to no knowledge about dating?  Well, maybe that was what helped me. Having no idea "how dating was done." I had to just piece together a strategy that worked for me from what I did know, and it turns out that it worked perfectly for me, and I think you will find that it will work well for you too. I can't promise you will find the love of your new life in five dates, but I can't say that won't happen either! I do know with these strategies at work, you will be feeling confidently ready to meet new people, trusting your instincts, detached from outcomes and just enjoying life more. And just imagine how attractive that is going to be to someone.   

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