and another thing: like i told my gf, there’s literally not a man on this planet i’m going to go back and forth with someone about. especially not one that’s categorically not a good person. insane. but enlightening. makes friendships stronger. which sidebar: i saw a video today about how surface level and lonely male friendships are and it’s because women and femmes do the labor of learning each other, having potentially difficult conversations whether surface (debating about a damn celebrity) or much, much deeper. all learning curves. etc. etc.

photo: still binging nashville and this part cracked me up lol