It is really great to find ourselves; I highly encourage everyone I coach to find their purpose, passion and meaning in life. However, we're ultimately here to create ourselves and the life we want... if you just find yourself, but don’t do anything to create yourself, you will find yourself doing a whole lot of nothing. And... not only do we owe it to ourselves to create ourselves, we owe it to ourselves to be ourselves! Our self-esteem will suffer greatly if we try to be someone else. Find you, create you and then focus soley on being truly you... the 1st rate version of you!