When your partner drops the bombshell—“I want a throuple”—what do you do next? Panic? Curiosity? Fear? In this episode, we dive headfirst into the emotional shock, unspoken assumptions, and complex conversations that arise when monogamy is suddenly questioned.

We unpack what’s really behind the request: unmet needs, curiosity, fantasy vs. reality, fear of commitment, or a genuine desire for ethical non-monogamy. More importantly, we explore the emotional toll on the partner who didn’t see this coming—feelings of inadequacy, betrayal, confusion, and pressure to agree just to keep the relationship alive.

This episode isn’t about judging alternative relationship structures—it’s about consent, communication, boundaries, and self-respect. We challenge listeners to ask the hard questions:

Whether you’re monogamous, curious, or navigating unfamiliar territory, this conversation helps you slow down, get clear, and make decisions rooted in honesty—not panic.