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# 94 Why you keep quitting on yourself (and how to stop). Personal development is totally like dating.
Lately, I’ve been realizing that my personal development journey feels exactly like my dating life.
I’m walking you through the four stages I’ve noticed: the meet-cute, the honeymoon phase, the commitment stage, and the long game, and how each one mirrors the way we approach self-improvement, aka becoming our flirty future self.
I share the excitement of meeting my “future self” for the first time, how intoxicating the honeymoon stage feels when I start new habits, and also the heartbreak of self-sabotage when I abandon her too soon. I know that loop so well, the cycle of starting over, building momentum, then giving up on myself. But I also share how I’ve learned to stay committed, spot my own red flags, and finally date my future self like she’s the one.
If you’ve ever wondered why it feels so hard to stay consistent with your self-growth, or why you keep restarting your journey, this conversation will help you see your personal development through a completely different lens. Think of it as a flirty diary entry on love, life design, and becoming the version of you that you can’t stop crushing on.
The breakdown:
00:00 Are you treating your personal development journey like your bad dating habits?
01:23 #1 The Meet-Cute: You visualize your future self for the first time
02:05 #2 The Honeymoon Phase: You start new habits, have the right mindset, and stop your bad habits. “I think this is possible.”
03:08 #3 The Commitment VS. Break it off: You keep going to become your next version, or you slide back into doubt, self-sabotage, and old ways
05:06 #4 The Long Game VS. Self-abandonment: You BECAME that person, your flirty future self, or you feel guilt/shame/check out
06:50 You start the cycle all over again if you stopped after the honeymoon phase
07:45 “This isn’t for me”
08:44 Start the cycle again, this time following through to the long game
10:10 What is it going to take for you to be committed to the future version of yourself?
10:45 Lock in with yourself. One decision at a time
11:25 Know your red flags so well
12:40 What stage of the game are you at?
Stay flirty, Stormy
https://stan.store/stormysage
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By Stormy SageLately, I’ve been realizing that my personal development journey feels exactly like my dating life.
I’m walking you through the four stages I’ve noticed: the meet-cute, the honeymoon phase, the commitment stage, and the long game, and how each one mirrors the way we approach self-improvement, aka becoming our flirty future self.
I share the excitement of meeting my “future self” for the first time, how intoxicating the honeymoon stage feels when I start new habits, and also the heartbreak of self-sabotage when I abandon her too soon. I know that loop so well, the cycle of starting over, building momentum, then giving up on myself. But I also share how I’ve learned to stay committed, spot my own red flags, and finally date my future self like she’s the one.
If you’ve ever wondered why it feels so hard to stay consistent with your self-growth, or why you keep restarting your journey, this conversation will help you see your personal development through a completely different lens. Think of it as a flirty diary entry on love, life design, and becoming the version of you that you can’t stop crushing on.
The breakdown:
00:00 Are you treating your personal development journey like your bad dating habits?
01:23 #1 The Meet-Cute: You visualize your future self for the first time
02:05 #2 The Honeymoon Phase: You start new habits, have the right mindset, and stop your bad habits. “I think this is possible.”
03:08 #3 The Commitment VS. Break it off: You keep going to become your next version, or you slide back into doubt, self-sabotage, and old ways
05:06 #4 The Long Game VS. Self-abandonment: You BECAME that person, your flirty future self, or you feel guilt/shame/check out
06:50 You start the cycle all over again if you stopped after the honeymoon phase
07:45 “This isn’t for me”
08:44 Start the cycle again, this time following through to the long game
10:10 What is it going to take for you to be committed to the future version of yourself?
10:45 Lock in with yourself. One decision at a time
11:25 Know your red flags so well
12:40 What stage of the game are you at?
Stay flirty, Stormy
https://stan.store/stormysage