In this research-based episode, I explore what it means to be a Black woman navigating online dating in a world where algorithms aren’t neutral, preferences aren't personal, and desire is often shaped by centuries-old stereotypes.

Drawing from the 2024 study From the Auction Block to the Tinder Swipe, I discuss how racial fetishization shows up in digital dating spaces—and what Black women are expected to carry emotionally and relationally just to be seen, safe, and loved.

Don’t forget - if you have a Secret Story you want to share with me like the one I share in this episode, then I invite you to⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drop your truth⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for the next Secret Story episode!

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Literature & Links:

• • ⁠⁠⁠The DC Relationship Education Center⁠⁠⁠
  • Are Black Men Still Protectors and Providers? [blog]

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