When it comes to masculinity, we’ve all heard the surface-level locker room talk centered around gratification and penis size. After experiencing this himself in his early 20s, Cam Fraser knew that there needed to be deeper conversations around male sexuality. Now as a professional sex coach and certified sexologist, Cam helps men go beyond surface-level sex into full-bodied sexual experiences.

If you’re curious about the deeper side of men's sexuality, this episode will open your eyes to the discussions we need to be having and how it’s not as straightforward as we’ve been led to believe. We explore the lack of education around non-concordance, the importance of ethical porn, and how to shift into pleasure-oriented masculinity. 

Both men and women can benefit from this week’s episode so make sure to listen in!

In this week’s episode, we discuss:

[01:40] About Cam Fraser

[02:32] How Cam’s college experience impacted his decision to become a sex coach and sexologist

[19:39] Performance-oriented vs. pleasure-oriented masculinity 

[26:02] How to communicate your emotions by connecting with your body

[29:19] Where does the obsession with penis size come from?

[41:10] The importance of representation in porn

[45:00] Sexual dysfunction and anxiety

[49:02] Exploring men's sexuality on a deeper level

[57:39] Cam’s favorite date

 

Connect with Cam Fraser:

Website

 

Instagram

 

Outperform A Porn Star

 

Man Myths: Understanding Male Sexuality