Let’s reconcile and move forward.

To reconcile means to restore harmony and make good again. This means that prior to reconciling, there is discord and conflict. After reconciliation, there is peace in the soul. Before reconciliation, there is stress and heartache. How do we move from “before” to “after”?

The first step is to have the desire to be reconciled. Both parties must be willing to reach out to one another. Reconciliation is not one-way. Second, we must be humble enough to admit our own shortcomings. While this is often difficult, it is an essential part of the process. Finally, we must be able to forgive. Holding a grudge is a roadblock to being reconciled.

Let’s look at today’s gospel and see reconciliation in progress. The young son returns to his father. While he is still a long way off, the father runs out to meet him (both are willing to reach out). The son apologizes to the father (recognizes his failings). The father rejoices at the son’s return (forgives him) and a new relationship between them is formed.

During these last few weeks of Lent, let’s do everything we can to reconcile with one another and with God. Then our Easter celebration will be filled with the joy of new relationships and inner peace in our hearts. The goal this year is to come to Holy Week FREE from bondage of unforgiveness. We can make reconciliation happen for our Lord this year for Easter. We do it for HIM, because HE expects it from us!