I would like to say that when you get in a love triangle and you are aware of what's going on then you have more control as well as more fault or responsibility to end it. But if you're in a love triangle that you are not aware of what's going on you become vulnerable and you're at the mercy of the persons who does know what's going on that can be "A Hidden Secret Attraction." Fortunate for me it wasn't fatal. Nevertheless it doesn't lessen your sin when you participate, so that's why I say I was just as much wrong in this relationship as Ellen was. The names have been changed because these wonderful people were all friends of mine and in the end, I am thankful it ended peacefully. I was told by the Lord to share the story and to make it clear that, "even though you may not be 100% at fault but if you participate willing in his his eye you're are at fault." Why? Because you may cause someone else to stumble or fall. Which reminds me of the text: "Therefore to him that knoweth how to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin." (James 4:7)