Did you come from a house divided?  Are you still in recovery mode from what went on behind those doors in the past?  Are the scenes from a broken childhood ever playing in your head, and you don't know how to get free?  God has provided a way for the most hurtful experiences from the past to stop hurting you in the present.  You must do what God did for the first family after their terrible failure-you must forgive those who sinned against you.  You have to forgive trauma in order to be free of it.