June 29, 2025

A Life-Long Lesbian's Journey to Self Love with Michele Flamer-Powell

1 hour 14 minutes

Keywords:

relationships, identity, breakups, motherhood, family dynamics, love, healing, self-discovery, validation, twin flames

Summary:

In this conversation, Michele shares her journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the complexities of love and motherhood. From coming out and navigating breakups to the challenges of starting a family, Michele reflects on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. The discussion also touches on the importance of validation in friendships and the spiritual journey of finding true love and connection.

Takeaways:

Michele realized her sexual identity through experiences with her college softball team.

The relationship with Eve was profound and taught Michele a lot about love and family.

Michele prioritized her desire to become a mother, leading to a difficult breakup with Eve.

The journey of motherhood is filled with challenges, especially for same-sex couples.

Michele's relationship with Carrie was marked by red flags that she initially overlooked.

Healing and self-discovery are ongoing processes that require intentionality and effort.

Validation in friendships is crucial for emotional support and growth.

Michele's spiritual journey led her to understand the concept of twin flames and soulmates.

The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships.

It's never too late to pursue happiness and make changes in life.

The Bi Life, a Community for bisexual women in hetero-passing monogamous relationships opens its doors on 7/1/25. Click ⁠HERE⁠ to learn more!

The Trauma Syndrome, by Tia Dayton is the book we refer to in this episode. Its a must read for anyone who grew up in a highly dysfunctional family, with addiction or mental illness, or is partnered with someone who grew up in this type of family.

...more

View all episodes

By Samantha Fox