Hello Empowered Wayers.

There are moments in life when certainty stops working.

Not in a dramatic way and not all at once.

But slowly—like a familiar structure that once held you begins to creak under the weight of lived experience. What once felt solid no longer answers the questions you’re carrying. What once felt righteous feels brittle. And somewhere beneath the noise of opinions, expectations, and inherited beliefs, something quieter begins to ask for your attention.

That’s where my latest book, Sovereign Women: Love is a Revolutionary Choice begins.

I didn’t set out to write a book with answers or to argue for or against a position. I wrote this story because I was interested in asking questions, the kind that don’t demand resolution, but presence. The questions that ask you not to decide quickly, but to listen more honestly.

At its heart, Sovereign Women: Love Is a Revolutionary Choice is a contemplative novel about what happens when a woman is asked to choose, not between right and wrong, but between fear and love.

Emily Carter has spent much of her life certain of who she is and what she believes. As the leading voice for the Women’s Choice Collective, she is the face of pro-choice. Her beliefs about women’s rights and autonomy in making bodily decisions has given her a sense of safety, identity, and belonging. But when an unexpected pregnancy disrupts the life she thought she was living, she finds herself standing at a threshold she didn’t choose.

The questions she faces aren’t abstract. They are embodied. Relational. Costly to her personally and to her career.

She had spent years defending what she believed was right.But no one had taught her how to listen to what felt true.

Emily’s journey is not about taking sides. It’s about staying present when certainty dissolves—and learning how to trust what emerges in its place.

As she struggles with her beliefs about women’s rights and her pregnancy, Emily remembers the wisdom of her grandmother, Rose Sullivan. Rose died several years before, but her quiet wisdom still offers a different way of understanding sovereignty. Rose never gave advice or solutions. Instead, she would listen and ask questions that didn’t rush toward conclusions.

“Fear will always offer you an answer,” Rose said gently.“Love offers you something better.It offers you a choice.”

This idea, that love is not sentimental or passive, but a conscious, often courageous choice, is a thread that runs through the entire story. Not love as agreement or approval, but love as presence. Love as the willingness to remain in relationship with ourselves and others, even when the ground beneath us feels uncertain.

Stay Open to Complexity

One of the things I care most about in this book is honoring nuance. The world we’re living in often rewards speed, certainty, and clarity. But human experience, especially when it comes to faith, morality, grief, and belonging, is rarely neat or tidy.

Sovereign Women makes space for complexity. It allows characters to be conflicted, tender, and unfinished. It trusts the reader to sit with questions rather than resolve them.

She didn’t know yet what she would choose.She only knew she could no longer pretendshe hadn’t heard herself.

If this story resonates with you, it may be because you’ve found yourself in a similar place, not necessarily in Emily’s circumstances, but in her interior landscape. Perhaps you, too, have felt the quiet tension between what you’re supposed to believe and what you’re beginning to sense is true. Perhaps you’ve noticed that fear often speaks first and loudest, while love waits.

This book is not an argument. It’s an offering.

It’s a companion for women who are learning to trust their inner authority without isolating themselves from relationship. A reminder that sovereignty does not mean standing alone. It means staying rooted in yourself while remaining open to connection.

“Sovereignty isn’t about being alone,” Rose said.“It’s about being so rooted in yourselfthat you can stay in relationshipwithout disappearing.”

This book is the first in the Sovereign Women series, but it stands on its own. Each novel explores a different facet of this inner journey—love, trust, faith—through the lives of women who are navigating loss, choice, and meaning in their own ways.

If you choose to read it, I hope it meets you gently. I hope it offers a place to pause. And I hope it reminds you that you don’t have to decide everything right now.

Some revolutions begin in the streets. This one begins in the soul.

Thank you for being here, and for listening.

—Kathryn

P.S. Sovereign Women: Love is a Revolutionary Choice is now available to pre-order on Amazon.

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