In this episode Judy is joined by her guest Davina Devine, and together we delve into the topic of loneliness. We explore the often overlooked experiences of confident and successful individuals when it comes to their well-being. Davina shares her own moments of vulnerability and how she is perceived as strong and put together. We discuss the stigma surrounding mental health and the selective sharing of struggles, emphasising the importance of confiding in the right people. Additionally, we touch on the desire for vulnerability from audiences and Davina's preference for keeping certain aspects of her life private. We reflect on our long-standing friendship and how first impressions can differ from the reality.

Davina opens up about her own experiences with loneliness, both in her personal life and as a drag performer discussing the challenges of living in the shadow of her drag persona and feeling constantly on display. We emphasise the value of taking time to sit with loneliness and process emotions, as well as the importance of prioritising personal happiness. Davina reflects on how her perception of loneliness has evolved over time and stresses the understanding that external factors cannot fill the void inside.

We discuss how counselling has helped us gain compassion and understanding for ourselves and others. We emphasise the need to recognise the complexities that everyone possesses beyond what meets the eye. Davina shares her perspective as a drag performer, explaining how it allows her to bring joy and entertainment while also protecting certain aspects of her life. 

Davina's opens up about her challenging childhood and how it contributed to her feelings of loneliness. She offers advice for young people going through similar experiences, urging them to trust their instincts and believe that they will eventually find their place. We also touch on the difficulties parents may face in understanding their children's differences.

Davina highlights the significance of interactions with others in combating loneliness but also underscores the importance of setting boundaries and saying no to things that do not bring joy. We delve into the pressure to always appear happy and confident, underscoring the value of authenticity and honesty about our emotions.

Host:  Judy Wong

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Guest: Davina Devine

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