A Safe Place For Boys

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  • Heated Rivalry Episode 1, or The Fastest Man in the Sport (feat. Jenna Van Es)

    Join Kelcee and first-time guest host Jenna for a blow-by-blow breakdown of 2025's Heated Rivalry Episode 1. Discussion topics include: the current Tumblr renaissance, The Cost of Contemplating The Timeline, and the scientific method at work. 

    To skip the intro, go to timestamp 2:40. 

    Looking for more Heated Rivalry conversation? Check out Character Crossover #2: Heated Rivalry. 

    Content Warnings for discussions of homophobia, child abuse, xenophobia, difficult family dynamics, and sexual harassment, as well as mentions of suicide. And, this probably goes without saying, but: sex. 

    New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

    Credits:

    Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

    Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

    Slapshot sound effect: https://www.underwater.ca/blog/free-hockey-sound-effects/

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    1 hr 47 min
  • Character Crossover #2: Heated Rivalry

    Welcome back to the cottage (treehouse) for the second Character Crossover! Join Kelcee and Spencer as they dive DEEP into the psyches of Shane Hollander, Scott Hunter, and Ilya Rosanov of 2025’s runaway hit Heated Rivalry. Discussion topics include The Body of Shane Hollander, Ilya the Rake, and why straight men love Scott Hunter. Thank you, Kyle…

    Content warnings for discussions of homophobia (including references to homophobic physical violence), xenophobia, suicide, parental death, child abuse, mental illness, and mentions of sexual assault. And this probably goes without saying, but: sex. 

    Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

    • “Watching Straight Men Watch Heated Rivalry,” by Kathryn VanArendonk, Vulture
    • “Heated Rivalry Handles Autism With Love, Care, and a Touch of Awkwardness,” by Sarah Kurchak, Time
    • Instagram post by Mimkempsonofficial
    • “Why Asian representation in ‘Heated Rivalry’ could be better,” by Samantha Pak, Joysauce
    • “Heated Rivalry” is a game-changer in sports, culture and queerness in television,” by Yati Sanghvi and Pearl Zhou, Cold Tea Collective
    • “The Quiet Negotiations,” by Colton Underwood, Substack
    • Instagram post by Zachsully94
    • Instagram post by page.melt
    • “Russia hands out first convictions in connection with anti-LGBT law,” The Guardian
    • “Gay hockey drama 'Heated Rivalry' becomes word-of-mouth hit in Russia, but fandom could lead to prison,” by Henry Austin, NBC
    • “The mirrored desires that make Heated Rivalry so addictive,” by Caroline Siede, The AV Club
    • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

      Credits:

      Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

      Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

      Slapshot sound effect: https://www.underwater.ca/blog/free-hockey-sound-effects/

      Connect with us!

      Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

      Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

      Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

      5 hr 30 min
    • Bonus Episode: Scrooged

      Join Kelcee and Spencer for this post-holiday bonus episode ostensibly about the 1988 Charles Dickens adaptation Scrooged. Discussion topics include the unfortunate plot of mid-1990’s television sitcom Unhappily Ever After, the struggles of adapting a classic story, and where the toaster came from.

      Content warnings for discussions of mental illness, sexual assault (10:52 - 14:37), parental death, and death by both freezing and burning. 

      Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

      • “Unhappily Ever After,” IMDB.com
      • “Scrooged,” Wikipedia.com
      • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

        Credits:

        Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

        Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

        Connect with us!

        Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

        Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

        Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

        47 min
      • A Christmas Carol, or Reclamation Day

        Join Kelcee and Spencer for their most ambitious project yet: discussing Charles Dicken’s classic 1843 novella A Christmas Carol (along with its many, many adaptations.) Discussion topics include the invention of the holiday special, hot nephews and wife guys, and what it really takes to change an old man’s mind.

        Content warnings for discussions of poverty, death via childbirth, and child death, as well as mentions of child abuse. 

        Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

        • “A Christmas Carol Introduction,” Shmoop.com
        • “Ghost stories: why the Victorians were so spookily good at them,” by Kira Cochrane, The Guardian
        • A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens
        • A Christmas Carol (2004)
        • A Christmas Carol (1999)
        • The Muppets Christmas Carol
        • Mickey’s Christmas Carol
        • A Christmas Carol (1938)
        • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

          Credits:

          Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

          Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

          Connect with us!

          Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

          Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

          Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

          Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

          3 hr 22 min
        • Magic Mike XXL, or A Ghost is a Ghost

          Join Kelcee and Spencer for Part TWO of a two-part conversation about Channing Tatum’s epic saga: Magic Mike (2012) and Magic Mike XXL (2015). Discussion topics include Big Dick Richie’s Billion Dollar Idea, how to become a real boy to the beat of a Backstreet Boys song, and Kelcee’s Kevin Nash book report. 

          Sorry Magic Mike’s Last Dance lovers. We aren’t talking about that one, and I think you know why.   

          Content warnings for discussions of sex and sex work (mostly stripping/exotic dancing), sexism, imbalanced relationship dynamics, brief mentions of homophobia, and drug use.

          Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

          • “11 Magic Mike XXL Details From Channing Tatum You Need to Know Before Seeing the Movie,” by Shannon Vestal Robson, popsugar.com
          • “MAGIC MIKE XXL - Pony - Oficial Warner Bros. Pictures,” by Warner Bros. Pictures Latinoamérica, youtube.com
          • “FOOTLOOSE "Warehouse Dance" Clip (1984) Kevin Bacon,” by JoBlo Movie Clips, youtube.com
          • “Magic Mike XXL Offers a Healthier Approach to Masculinity,” by Orestes Adams, Collider
          • “Manhood: The emancipation of the American male in Magic Mike XXL,” by Jason Stanford, The Experiment
          • “Kevin Nash,” Wikipedia
          • Southpaw podcast Instagram post
          • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

            Credits:

            Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

            Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

            Connect with us!

            Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

            Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

            2 hr 14 min
          • Magic Mike, or The Kid's Not Alright

            Join Kelcee and Spencer for Part One of a two-part conversation about Channing Tatum’s epic saga: Magic Mike (2012) and Magic Mike XXL (2015). Discussion topics include an unhelpful breakdown of adult entertainment statutes, the liberatory potential of hip thrusting, and the importance of follow-up questions. 

            Sorry Magic Mike’s Last Dance lovers. We aren’t talking about that one, and I think you know why.   

            Content warnings for discussions of sex and sex work (mostly stripping/exotic dancing), drug use/abuse, drug overdoses, sexism (including mentions of sexual assault), poor labor practices, financial exploitation, and mentions of homophobia and biphobia.

            Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

            • “Under-21 soon will be too young to be a stripper in Florida. What we know about HB 7063,” by Samantha Neely, The Florida Times-Union
            • “Florida Strip Club Regulations and Compliance Guide,” by LegalClarity Florida, legalclarity.org
            • “9 things you didn’t know about Tampa strip clubs,” by Gabrielle Calise, Tampa Bay Times
            • “How 'Magic Mike' Plays With Toxic Masculinity,” by Brecken Hunter Wellborn, Collider
            • The Color Purple by Alice Walker
            • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

              Credits:

              Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

              Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

              Connect with us!

              Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

              Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

              Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

              2 hr
            • Holes, or How to be a Good Boy in a Bad, Bad Desert

              Join Kelcee and Spencer for a conversation about the best gosh-darn book-to-movie adaptation in the West: 2003’s Holes, based on the novel by Louis Sachar. Discussion topics include foot stuff (like…so much foot stuff), the perils of broken promises, and a how-to guide for morally-upright vigilantism. 

              Content warnings for EXTENSIVE discussions of both physical and emotional child abuse, particularly within the criminal justice and “troubled teen” systems, racism and racist violence (including lynching), sexism and sexist violence, and mentions of homelessness, child abandonment, suicide, and conversion therapy. 

              Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

              • Holes by Louis Sachar
              • “A Video About Digging Holes,” by Jacob Geller, youtube.com
              • “What Holes Taught Me About The Prison Industrial Complex,” by Charlotte Ahlin, Bustle
              • “This Is Paris Official Documentary,” by Paris Hilton, youtube.com
              • “Five Facts About the Troubled Teen Industry,” by Catherine E Krebs, The American Bar Association
              • Desperation without Dignity: Conditions of Children Placed in For Profit Residential Facilities, National Disability Rights Network
              • Breakingcodesilence.org
              • “The Child Labor Camp from HOLES Reopens Amid Coronavirus Concerns,” by Laura Slade Lewis, McSweeney’s
              • “Small Steps (novel),” Wikipedia
              • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

                Credits:

                Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

                Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

                Connect with us!

                Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

                Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

                Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

                Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

                3 hr 2 min
              • My Cousin Vinny, or Getting By With a Little Help from Marisa Tomei

                Join Kelcee and Spencer as they break out the F-bombs for a conversation about the third best legal movie of all time: 1992’s My Cousin Vinny. Discussion topics include a PSA about the best way to talk to cops, a robust defense of the defense attorney, and what Mona Lisa can teach us about love.  

                Also sorry we have the world’s loudest chairs and paper in this one. It’s still a low-budget production around here. 

                Content warnings for discussions of police misconduct, wrongful imprisonment, and capital punishment; and mentions of sexual assault, racism, and sexism. 

                Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

                • “NLG Know Your Rights Reminder: Shut the F*** Up” by National Lawyers Guild, Detroit & MI, youtube.com
                • “‘What Is a Yute?’: An Oral History of ‘My Cousin Vinny’” by Andy Greene, Rolling Stone Magazine
                • “The 25 Greatest Legal Movies (According to the American Bar Association)” by majfoalbkeopaza, IMBD.com
                • “My Cousin Vinny: The Perils of Joint Representation” by James Dailey, Laws and the Multiverse
                • “Rule 1.7: Conflict of Interest: Current Clients” by the American Bar Association, Model Rules of Professional Conduct
                • “Real Lawyer Reacts to My Cousin Vinny” by LegalEagle, youtube.com
                • “My Cousin Vinny: a story about legal education” by Alberto Bernabe, Torts Blog
                • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

                  Credits:

                  Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

                  Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

                  Connect with us!

                  Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

                  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

                  Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

                  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

                   

                  2 hr 13 min
                • Good Will Hunting, or I'll Just Have a Perrier

                  Join Kelcee and Spencer for a conversation about the most famous entry into the “Boys With Feelings” genre: 1997’s Good Will Hunting. Discussion topics include What Men Want (in a therapist), war stories from the trenches of academia, and what makes a happy ending. 

                  Content warnings for extensive discussions of physical violence, child abuse, sexual abuse and misconduct, and mental health treatments. 

                  Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

                  • “Good Will Hunting,” Wikipedia
                  • “Malick gave Good Will Hunting its ending,” by Tom Shone, These Violent Delights
                  • “The Unlikely Link Between Metallica And Matt Damon,” by MTV News Staff, mtv.com
                  • “Therapist Reacts to Movie Therapist: GOOD WILL HUNTING,” Cinema Therapy, youtube.com
                  • “How ‘Good Will Hunting’ Changed Men’s Mental Health for the Better,” by Lauren Vinopal, Inside Hook
                  • High Conflict–Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out by Amanda Ripley
                  • Where We Stand: Class Matters by bell hooks
                  • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

                    Credits:

                    Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

                    Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

                    Connect with us!

                    Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

                    Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

                    Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

                    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

                    3 hr 1 min
                  • Last Dragon, or The Power of the Glow (feat. Ed McClain)

                    Join Kelcee and Spencer AND special guest Ed McClain for a conversation about the 1985 martial arts classic The Last Dragon. Discussion topics include the complicated legacy of Bruce Lee, what to do if the power was inside you all along, and why it’s so important to see the Good Guys win.  

                    Content warnings for discussions of racism, sexism, physical violence, and gun violence. 

                    Works Cited & Recommended Reading:

                    • Check out Ed’s music on Bandcamp or Soundcloud
                    • Check out Paul Bowman’s work about Bruce Lee
                    • New to the Show? Start at the beginning with Jurassic Park, or Monstrous Moms vs. Dangerous Dads

                      Credits:

                      Theme Music: Break Through_Narrative by INOD

                      Logo Design: Geoff Sykes (find him on Instagram)

                      Connect with us!

                      Suggestions for episode topics? Email us at: [email protected]

                      Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/safeplaceforboys.bsky.social

                      Instagram: www.instagram.com/safeplaceforboys/

                      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/WbGP4gg9CXxLvYU5/ 

                       

                      2 hr 42 min

                    About A Safe Place For Boys

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                    A Safe Place for Boys is a film and television discussion podcast that seeks to start more compassionate conversations about masculinity in media. Join us every month as we compile our positive…