There is a world of difference between sharing a perspective
and counseling someone about what they should do.
Good coaching should always start from the premise that
you are the expert on you and you and your situation,
and focus on helping you uncover what works best for you.
Whether you’re receiving or giving support,
this spell will help you identify the approach that will
open up a curious, expansive, and empowering dialogue.

Make Magic:
An outside perspective can be valuable, but only if 
it is co-creative with your understanding and truth.
If someone is telling you what to do
instead of asking thoughtful questions,
they’re not respecting you and your experience.

Transcript: A Spell for Eschewing Advice