Many people had married for the wrong reason. Some people married because they are anxious, because they want to make a point, because they feel it is high time they do and they want to by every means available and because of this self mounted pressure, they couldn't think rightly, consequently, they fall into wrong hands. One of the decisions you must ever be calm to make is the decision on who to marry. Until you are satisfied and have overcome all suspicion, and have verified all you must, don't tie the knot. Be wise please.