There is a time and season for everything. After a painful time of spiritual abuse, betrayals, walking away from things that I loved, and a long season of isolation, God started lifting up the rug in my own life. As I started addressing the root causes of many of my issues, it finally became "a time to heal". We don't have to stay in a place of hurt and pain. After Peter was sifted like wheat, Jesus told him to go back and strengthen the brethren. Use your story, your pain, and your trials as an opportunity to help others heal too.