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A Type Three Lover
The “Wind Beneath My Wings” – Understanding the Type Three Lover
Have you ever found love exactly where you weren’t looking? In our latest broadcast, Stan Shelby dives into the Type 3 Lover, often described as the “third love”—the one that blindsides you because it doesn’t follow the dramatic, “fireworks” script of early relationships.
The Love You Didn’t See Coming
Stan shares a personal story about how he and Cynthia first met. At the time, Stan was engaged to someone else, and Cynthia wasn’t looking for a relationship at all. After Stan’s previous relationship ended, they began spending time together simply as friends—no strings attached.
“If you’d have told me in the beginning that she was going to be my wife, I would have said ‘no way,'” Stan admits. But as they enjoyed each other’s company without the pressure of “playing games,” they realized they had found a deep, enduring attachment. This is the hallmark of a Type 3 love: it’s unexpected, easy, and right.
Key Traits of a Type 3 Lover:
Unconditional Acceptance: This lover accepts you for who you truly are. There is no need to live up to a fantasy or fit a specific image.
Calm over Fireworks: While first loves might be volatile and intense, Type 3 love is subtle, lasting, and peaceful. It moves beyond mere passion into a deep sense of security.
Easygoing and Flexible: Type 3s are characterized by a “go-with-the-flow” attitude. They handle life’s challenges with a tolerant attitude rather than worry.
A Need for Peace: These partners prioritize emotional stability. As Stan explains, while he and Cynthia have faced stress in their careers, they’ve learned to rely on their faith to maintain a “stress-free” environment at home.
Romantic Preferences of the Type 3:
If your spouse is a Type 3, they likely value:
Light Schedules: They don’t need a packed itinerary. They enjoy simple activities and plenty of time to relax.
Escape from Reality: They love opportunities to unwind and leave the stressors of the world behind.
Shared Quiet Moments: Because they are often more introverted, they find romance in calm, uninterrupted time together.
Final Thought: Relying on the Source of Peace
Stan reminds us that even when we struggle to maintain our composure, we can turn to a higher power. By focusing on the “greater one” within, couples can transition from a place of stress to a place of rest. As the Type 3 lover proves, the best kind of love is the one that brings you peace.
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By Stan and Cynthia ShelbyThe “Wind Beneath My Wings” – Understanding the Type Three Lover
Have you ever found love exactly where you weren’t looking? In our latest broadcast, Stan Shelby dives into the Type 3 Lover, often described as the “third love”—the one that blindsides you because it doesn’t follow the dramatic, “fireworks” script of early relationships.
The Love You Didn’t See Coming
Stan shares a personal story about how he and Cynthia first met. At the time, Stan was engaged to someone else, and Cynthia wasn’t looking for a relationship at all. After Stan’s previous relationship ended, they began spending time together simply as friends—no strings attached.
“If you’d have told me in the beginning that she was going to be my wife, I would have said ‘no way,'” Stan admits. But as they enjoyed each other’s company without the pressure of “playing games,” they realized they had found a deep, enduring attachment. This is the hallmark of a Type 3 love: it’s unexpected, easy, and right.
Key Traits of a Type 3 Lover:
Unconditional Acceptance: This lover accepts you for who you truly are. There is no need to live up to a fantasy or fit a specific image.
Calm over Fireworks: While first loves might be volatile and intense, Type 3 love is subtle, lasting, and peaceful. It moves beyond mere passion into a deep sense of security.
Easygoing and Flexible: Type 3s are characterized by a “go-with-the-flow” attitude. They handle life’s challenges with a tolerant attitude rather than worry.
A Need for Peace: These partners prioritize emotional stability. As Stan explains, while he and Cynthia have faced stress in their careers, they’ve learned to rely on their faith to maintain a “stress-free” environment at home.
Romantic Preferences of the Type 3:
If your spouse is a Type 3, they likely value:
Light Schedules: They don’t need a packed itinerary. They enjoy simple activities and plenty of time to relax.
Escape from Reality: They love opportunities to unwind and leave the stressors of the world behind.
Shared Quiet Moments: Because they are often more introverted, they find romance in calm, uninterrupted time together.
Final Thought: Relying on the Source of Peace
Stan reminds us that even when we struggle to maintain our composure, we can turn to a higher power. By focusing on the “greater one” within, couples can transition from a place of stress to a place of rest. As the Type 3 lover proves, the best kind of love is the one that brings you peace.