We've got joy completely backwards. Most of us treat it like a weekend privilege - something we earn after ticking all the boxes. But what if that's exactly what's keeping you stuck at 33% of your potential?

In this episode, I'm calling out one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves: that we have to choose between achievement and enjoyment. As a high performance coach, I see brilliant people everywhere who've got their lives "sorted" yet secretly worry that pursuing more joy might somehow jeopardise their success.

But joy isn't the enemy of achievement - it's rocket fuel.

When you operate from genuine joy (not forced positivity), you make bolder decisions, become more magnetic, and opportunities start flowing your way. But first, you need to reconnect with what actually lights you up - not what you think should make you happy.

I'll share simple practices to weave joy into your daily routine and help you find that sweet spot between taking aligned action and operating from pure delight. Because you didn't come here to fire on a third of your potential - you came here to be fully, authentically, joyfully you!

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Wow, what a journey! After spending the weekend at the Abraham Hicks workshop in Edinburgh (the ticket to which I manifested within just 12 hours - how mad is that?), I had this proper lightbulb moment standing by the Angel of the North. The whole experience felt like divine orchestration, like the Universe was giving me a huge sign that I was on the right path!

With 1,800 of us there, I suddenly realised it was time to step away from having Abraham as my main guide and truly embrace my own voice. That's why I've rebranded my podcast to "A Zest for Life" - capturing that childlike enthusiasm we often lose as grown-ups.

This isn't about flip-flopping - it's brave adaptation! Coming home to yourself is such a beautiful feeling, far better than chasing external validation. My podcast will be this gorgeous mix of spirituality, raw humanity, biohacking, and proper joy.

When you own your true essence, life unfolds beautifully, connecting you with your authentic purpose.

Fancy joining me on this adventure?

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So you decide not to do something...

then you get frustrated for not doing it...

then you try to do it, but keep allowing yourself to get distracted...

Trust me, we've all been there! In this episode, we chat about how we often become our own biggest roadblock to happiness and success.

It's a bit mad when you think about it - we're both the problem AND the solution to our own frustration! Whether you're putting things off or just keeping busy without actually getting anywhere important, you end up wondering where on earth another week has gone!

We'll look at those pesky thought patterns that keep us trapped until we finally wake up to them. The real eye-opener? You're actually both the struggle AND the success - it just depends on which way you're looking at things!

Find out why trusting your feelings creates breakthroughs when overthinking gets you nowhere. Those fidgets, foot taps and that knot in your stomach? They're actually brilliant little clues pointing you in the right direction.

With some simple practices like breathing techniques and movement, you'll see how frustration can pop in for a quick visit rather than moving in permanently. As you shift your focus, you'll start flowing through life with that magical oomph you've been after.

Life's meant to be fun! Join me to discover how tuning into yourself shows what your frustration is really telling you, clearing the way forward and naturally building habits that bring more good stuff into your brilliant life!

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
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Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

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Think of daily habits as the secret ingredient for personal growth. Morning routines and evening check-ins create a natural flow that keeps you on track - even when life throws you curveballs.

Taking time to feel grateful isn't just nice - it actually shifts your energy and shows you where you can grow. After years of running after experts and coaches, I've realised that while good advice helps, the best changes happen when you start trusting yourself.

My Align programme gives you quick, personalised guidance every day, and you set the pace. Ready to tap into your amazing potential? Drop me a message on Instagram or check out my website to get started.

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

Interested in working with Charlotte? Schedule your free no-obligation call here:
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Identity forms the foundation of high performance. Beyond job titles, your identity encompasses your presence, expertise, values, and how you show up when no one's watching.

Our identity includes our skills, strengths and desires. When desires materialise, our identity naturally evolves. It's never about what you're doing, but who you're being throughout the journey.

We often have desired states—more clients, greater freedom, deeper love—that remain just out of reach because our current identity isn't aligned with attracting them. When resistance emerges, it signals necessary identity upgrades.

The transformative approach? Step into the identity of someone who's already achieved what you desire. How do they feel? How do they own their presence?

In this episode, I also recommend quick 30-second reset practices for you to do when you feel yourself slipping into old patterns.

Whether you thrive with quantum leaps or need gradual integration, you're already absolutely epic, capable of embodying any identity you choose. Your transformation isn't about becoming someone new - it's about embracing who you truly are!

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Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

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As high achievers, we often find ourselves caught in a cycle of endless giving without creating space to receive. This imbalance leads to burnout and emptiness that no external validation can fill.

Think about your relationship with receiving. Do you deflect compliments? Feel uncomfortable discussing abundance? Experience guilt when accepting help? These are signs your receiving portal may be blocked.

In my journey, embracing the ability to channel Abraham has required opening myself to divine guidance. This vulnerability has unlocked deeper wisdom that creates profound shifts for those I work with.

When we allow ourselves to receive - whether compliments, opportunities, or spiritual downloads - we create space for magic. My ALIGN programme guides participants through healing, recalibration and flow, helping them discover their unique energetic frequency for success.

The key isn't pushing harder but allowing yourself to receive what's already available. When you step into your unique flow, life becomes less about forcing outcomes and more about dancing with possibilities.

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

Interested in working with Charlotte? Schedule your free no-obligation call here:
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My podcast has been on quite a journey of transformation. We've gone from "Becoming Fearless" to "Align with Abraham", and trust me, it's been quite the ride!

This rebranded "Align with Abraham" podcast introduces a powerful blend of high performance techniques and energetic alignment principles that will help you unlock your full potential while staying grounded and present.

Visit the show notes to learn more about the Align program, where I help you align with your truest self and manifest your desires using my own unique blend of science and spirituality.

It's time to dare to leap and create the life you actually want - no more playing small!

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

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Are you stuck on the hamster wheel of life, always running, always busy?

This episode is for all you high-achieving go-getters who might be missing out on the magic of simply being still.

Hitting the pause button isn't admitting defeat - it's actually your secret superpower!

I talk about those weird fears that pop up when we think about slowing down (you know the ones!). Those quiet moments aren't just nice breaks - they're where your best ideas and clearest thinking happen! Society has got us believing we need to hustle 24/7 to succeed, when really it's peaceful stillness that might be what you're missing.

I'll share some easy ways to welcome more calm into your day-to-day life, because stillness comes in all shapes and sizes, and it's different for everyone.

As you listen, maybe ask yourself: "How do I feel about slowing down?" Could carving out just a few minutes of quiet time be the game-changer you never knew you needed?

Discover why sometimes doing nothing is actually doing everything!

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

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Ready to talk about something that's been a game-changer for me and so many others? Let's dive into radical self-acceptance and how it can completely transform your life.

Think about this - what if you could embrace all those quirky, brilliant parts of yourself that make you you? I've seen firsthand how learning to love all aspects of yourself - even the messy bits - creates this amazing ripple effect through your business, relationships, and inner world.

In this episode, I talk about the real journey of self-acceptance - not the Instagram-perfect version, but the authentic one with ups and downs. We'll talk about how forgiving yourself and owning your unique gifts can help you lead with confidence, even on those days when you'd rather hide under the covers.

There's the dance between brilliance and struggle, where we flow in and out of our best selves! And I'll share some practical energy practices that have helped me stay grounded when self-doubt creeps in.

Whether you're just beginning to explore self-acceptance or you've been working on it for years, this episode offers some fresh perspectives on rewriting your story and stepping into what feels true for you.

Join me right now, and remember - I'm right here in this journey with you. Each day brings new chances to grow, and I'd love to support you along the way.

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

Interested in working with Charlotte? Schedule your free no-obligation call here:
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Ready to change your life from the inside out? In this episode, I'm getting real about what it means to let go and create space for what truly matters. Ever feel like you're pouring your heart and soul into things that just drain you? I'll explore why that happens and - more importantly - how to stop it.

Think of your energy like a bucket with holes. Exhausting, right? I'll show you how to patch those leaks and start filling your life with what actually lights you up. Sure, letting go can be scary (we've all been there!), but it's also the key to levelling up in ways you never imagined.

From rebuilding trust in yourself to raising your standards, I get into the nitty-gritty of personal transformation. No fluff, no empty promises - just honest conversation about redirecting your energy and stepping into your power. If you're ready to stop settling and start thriving, this one's for you.

CONNECT WITH CHARLOTTE

Website: https://www.idaretoleap.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlottecarter
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamcharlottecarter

Join us on one of our free & entry level masterclasses, energy activations and workshops: https://idaretoleap.com/events

The Shift (Charlotte's signature programme): https://idaretoleap.com/the-shift

Interested in working with Charlotte? Schedule your free no-obligation call here:
https://calendar.idaretoleap.com/widget/bookings/discovery-with-charlotte