This week on Authbition, I’m reflecting on a decade of love—and how I found it when I stopped chasing it.

In this episode, I read a personal essay that traces the twists and stumbles of my love life, from heartbreaks and wrong turns to the serendipitous September night that changed everything. It’s a story about how letting go of the search opened space for the real thing to arrive. I share how becoming the best version of myself—without looking for anyone else—paved the way for the most meaningful relationship of my life.

It’s also a reminder that ambition isn’t just about doing or achieving—it’s about caring deeply, living fully, and being present with the people who matter most.

If you’ve ever felt like love would never find you, or wondered if you’d missed your shot, this one’s for you.

Read the original essay on Medium here:

https://medium.com/the-narrative-arc/i-found-true-love-when-i-stopped-looking-for-it-c73c5aad82ab?sk=b6e5a752fdcc1036ff577e7eafbc5831

For more essays, episodes, and ways to connect, check out the Authbition website here:

https://www.authbition.com/