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Absent Closure: Breathe Life Podcast: Episode 038
I recently shared in a conversation with one of my favorite spirits when he mentioned he recently felt wronged by a close friend. After an intense back and forth conversation between them, instead of revisiting the potential hurt feelings or remaining wounds from the previous discussion, his friend chose to ghost him. (Disappear without communication aka - the path of least resistance) My client was ok with the possibility of their relationship coming to an end. He was ok with the changing of seasons if that what's indeed needed to happen. He decided to focus his energy on the collections of blessings & lessons gained throughout their friendship. // His only resistance showed up when he attempted to find closure on what happened. Although their relationship had dissolved, he still required the participation of another person to arrive at a place of closure. He felt his closure was stolen away due to the absent manner his friend decided to end things between them. //
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The questions he and I poured into became, where do you go to find closure/peace when the option for both are not made available? How do you allow yourself to get beyond the hurt feelings, confusion, and frustration to begin the healing process? How do you find closure when what's required is taken away from you? How do you free yourself from needing that relief from someone else? // Our reality is that we exist in a world that does whatever we can to avoid conflict and/or the perception of conflict. Rarely will we come across individuals willing to display to courage and strength it takes to clearly and effectively communicate their feelings when met with their emotions. We reward those of us who avoid difficult conversations. We support running away from challenging moments and/or uncomfortable situations. The upsetting truth: that reality isn't going anywhere anytime soon. The more efficient you become at answering the above questions, the better equipped you will be when met with moments of needed closure.
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Join the podcast episode as I share a personal, powerful moment in my life that required solo closure. "Influence Brickell"
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I recently shared in a conversation with one of my favorite spirits when he mentioned he recently felt wronged by a close friend. After an intense back and forth conversation between them, instead of revisiting the potential hurt feelings or remaining wounds from the previous discussion, his friend chose to ghost him. (Disappear without communication aka - the path of least resistance) My client was ok with the possibility of their relationship coming to an end. He was ok with the changing of seasons if that what's indeed needed to happen. He decided to focus his energy on the collections of blessings & lessons gained throughout their friendship. // His only resistance showed up when he attempted to find closure on what happened. Although their relationship had dissolved, he still required the participation of another person to arrive at a place of closure. He felt his closure was stolen away due to the absent manner his friend decided to end things between them. //
:
The questions he and I poured into became, where do you go to find closure/peace when the option for both are not made available? How do you allow yourself to get beyond the hurt feelings, confusion, and frustration to begin the healing process? How do you find closure when what's required is taken away from you? How do you free yourself from needing that relief from someone else? // Our reality is that we exist in a world that does whatever we can to avoid conflict and/or the perception of conflict. Rarely will we come across individuals willing to display to courage and strength it takes to clearly and effectively communicate their feelings when met with their emotions. We reward those of us who avoid difficult conversations. We support running away from challenging moments and/or uncomfortable situations. The upsetting truth: that reality isn't going anywhere anytime soon. The more efficient you become at answering the above questions, the better equipped you will be when met with moments of needed closure.
:
Join the podcast episode as I share a personal, powerful moment in my life that required solo closure. "Influence Brickell"
Breathe Life