In this episode I get into the importance of actively showing up for yourself, depending on your ability first so that you can then have loving relationships with others. I find too often that people are using others to fill a void within themselves that only THEY can heal. Nobody is Bob the builder, they cannot FIX IT! That is nobody's job but your own so make it an active priority to do that for YOURSELF so that you can live peacefully, with or without someone.