Adair Adventures

In this episode of Adair Adventures, Trey and Sarah continue their dating journey after getting back together. From a trip to the shooting range and meeting important people in each other's lives to birthdays, brunches, favorite restaurants, and everyday adventures, their relationship keeps growing.

They also share an important lesson about communication after a disagreement over airport pickup expectations. Learning to pause, calm down, communicate what you need, and understand each other's perspective helped them turn a small conflict into a lasting solution.

Then come some big milestones: Trey tells Sarah he loves her, they celebrate one year of knowing each other, and Sarah meets ten members of Trey's family in one day—because, according to Trey, the best way to take off a Band-Aid is to rip it off! From unexpected surprises to meaningful milestones, this episode shows how communication, compromise, and a little adventure continued shaping their relationship.

We've finally reached the end of Sarah's sixteen first dates! In this episode, we wrap up the final three dates, talk about intentional questions, dating outside your norm, knowing when to move on, and making the most of the dating process.

And then… Trey returns. From a chance night out and persistent texts to getting kicked to the curb (again), the story of how Trey worked his way back into Sarah's life takes an unexpected turn. Was this the beginning of their second chance?

The dating adventures continue as Sarah revisits two very different relationships—one that quickly revealed a major red flag, and another that lasted long enough for the deeper questions to surface.

From long-distance dating and faith differences to finances, debt, lifestyle compatibility, and discovering what someone really believes about relationships and leadership, Sarah and Trey talk about why intentional questions matter. Sometimes someone can look great "on paper," but the more you get to know them, the more you discover what truly matters.

The dating adventures continue as Sarah revisits more of her dates—and the lessons she learned along the way. From turning a date into a meaningful friendship and mentorship to asking deeper questions about faith, marriage, family, goals, fears, and relationships, Sarah and Trey unpack what it really means to date intentionally.

They also talk about taking notes, recognizing red flags, defining cheating, knowing your non-negotiables, and why not every person you meet on a dating app is meant to become your partner. Sometimes, the adventure leads somewhere unexpected—and that's okay.

The moment you've been waiting for Trey and Sarah's first date!

After eight dates and plenty of dating adventures, we finally get to the story of how Trey and Sarah met. From a late arrival and a near stand-up to age differences, awkward moments, meeting friends, cooking dinner, and discovering unexpected chemistry, we retrace the dates that brought them closer.

But intentional dating means having the hard conversations too. When Sarah's desire for marriage and children collided with Trey's uncertainty about the future, they faced a decision that would change everything.

Was it really the end? Or just another chapter in the adventure?

The dating adventures continue as Sarah shares dates five through eight. This episode covers dating younger, a date that never happened, and a relationship that went deeper than the others. We discuss age gaps, authenticity, setting boundaries, and learning to recognize character and red flags.

Next up on episode 4: Sarah and Trey's first date.

In the second episode of Adair Adventures, we're diving into Sarah's dating journey and revisiting the first four of her sixteen first dates. She discusses the awkward encounters, ghosting, mismatched expectations, and unexpected lessons. Sarah shares the real stories about dating later in life.

Join Sarah + Trey as they talk about red flags, authenticity, online dating profiles, setting standards, and why getting ghosted isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes, a closed door is simply a redirection.

Welcome to Adair Adventures!

In our very first episode, Sarah and Trey introduce you to the story behind Adair Adventures and reflect on when Sarah decided to stop casually dating and start dating with a plan.

Over the course of this season, Sarah shares the 16 first dates she went on while intentionally dating, the lessons learned, and how one dating app ultimately connected her with Trey.

Adair Adventuires isn't a podcast about finding "the one." It's about what happens when you get intentional about what you're looking for, understand your non-negotiables, and refuse to settle.

• What intentional dating means • Creating a list of non-negotiables • Why having a plan can change the way you approach dating

In the upcoming episodes, we'll take you through all 16 first dates, the two years Sarah and Trey dated, interracial dating, meeting the families, their first trip together, boundaries, premarital counseling, traveling, and the unexpected ways God has woven their story together.

We're so glad you're here. Come adventure with us. 🤍