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You ever meet someone who uses their diagnosis as a personality trait?
Derek’s been using ADD as his safety net since middle school — skipping deadlines, ghosting texts, showing up late with a Red Bull and a smirk. But what he didn’t see? Every excuse was rewiring his brain to believe he wasn’t capable.
This episode unpacks how your greatest edge can become your favorite excuse — and how that mindset doesn’t just affect you… it teaches everyone watching you (like his little sister Sylvia) to expect less from themselves too.
It’s not about masking neurodiversity — it’s about owning it without weaponizing it.
By Nick GumpertYou ever meet someone who uses their diagnosis as a personality trait?
Derek’s been using ADD as his safety net since middle school — skipping deadlines, ghosting texts, showing up late with a Red Bull and a smirk. But what he didn’t see? Every excuse was rewiring his brain to believe he wasn’t capable.
This episode unpacks how your greatest edge can become your favorite excuse — and how that mindset doesn’t just affect you… it teaches everyone watching you (like his little sister Sylvia) to expect less from themselves too.
It’s not about masking neurodiversity — it’s about owning it without weaponizing it.