You’ve heard the promises: “I’ll change.” “This was the last time.” But nothing’s different. In this episode, we speak to those loving someone with an addiction and the addicted individual. How do you know if change is actually possible? How do you tell the difference between hope and denial? You’ll learn what to look for beyond words and what the change process really involves. If you're tired of the cycle, confused about what to believe, or just trying to protect your peace, this conversation is for you.

00:00  Dale hates flies & other Africa stories

10:10 My partner has an addiction, should I stay or go?

14:33 Do they really want to change?

18:40  Talk is cheap

22:36 When doing your best to change is not enough

27:17 Owning your mistakes

35:40 The process of change

53:53 Are some addictions stronger than others?

59:40 Reaching out for help

1:03:52 What is rock bottom?