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What if impulsivity in sex isn't about risk taking — but about a nervous system reaching for relief?

In this episode of NeuroSpice & Life, late-diagnosed neurodivergent hosts Freya Corboy (alexithymic counsellor) and Hanna Hosking (sexologist & sensologist) have an honest, compassionate conversation about what happens when ADHD, dopamine-seeking, shame, low self-worth, and emotional dysregulation collide in our sexual and romantic lives.

For many neurodivergent adults, impulsivity in this space isn't a character flaw or a moral failing. Research suggests that ADHD is associated with differences in how the brain processes reward and risk — with a tendency to overestimate the benefits of an action and underestimate its consequences. Add emotional dysregulation, a lifetime of criticism, and a nervous system that burns hot and fast, and the picture becomes a lot more complex — and a lot more human.

This episode explores what hypersexuality can look like for neurodivergent people, why it so often has less to do with sex itself and more to do with the need for dopamine, stimulation, connection, or escape — and what it means to start making more conscious, self-honouring choices without shame.

In this episode we explore:

One thing we want you to hear: there is no shame in recognising these patterns in yourself. You are not broken. You are a complex human being with a brain that works differently — and understanding that is the beginning of something better. Neurodiverse people often have difficulties navigating consent and communication, expressing boundaries, and/or going into flight, fight, freeze and fawn. If this is something personal to you or someone you know, speaking with a therapist who specialises in neurodivergence and trauma can be really valuable.

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