• The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real self
• The wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary setting
• The importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world

00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think

00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content

00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life

01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster

05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes)

09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights

11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included)

13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan

15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances

17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse

19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises

22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets

24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule

28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image

33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it)

37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership

42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules

48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines

54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication

58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed

63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something

66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human

Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie embrace the chaos of modern life: they dish on everything from DVDs on a nostalgia kick to the madness of Kentucky cross country and barn cat obsession, all with their signature wit and humor.

• The lost art of DVDs and the nostalgia of physical media.
• Generational shifts: Elder Millennials, Gen Z, and the decline of patience.
• The wild world of Kentucky cross country — rain, retirements, and unruly dogs
• The chaos of balancing book launches, vacations, and pet rescue missions.
• Social media authenticity vs AI-generated content — how to stay real in a digital age.
• Kentucky's trade fair finds — from quirky product finds to the latest in equestrian gear.

For our special videos episode and bonus content, make sure to join our Patreon!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert for a lively and insightful conversation covering horse tack hoarding, saddle fitting, personal growth, and upcoming events. Discover practical tips, humorous anecdotes, and inspiring stories from the world of equestrian life.

Key topics

1. Horse tack hoarding and organization
2. Saddle fitting and maintenance
3. Personal growth and self-awareness in riding
4. Upcoming equestrian events and book launches

Chapters

00:00 Morning Conversations and Caffeine Fixes

02:52 Unpacking and Tack Hoarding

05:57 Saddle Pads and Comfort in Riding

08:57 Fashion and Functionality in Equestrian Gear

12:03 The Emotional Connection to Tack and Gear

14:57 Saddle Fit and Horse Comfort

19:35 Regular Care for Horses

22:07 The Joy of Matching Outfits

26:29 Teenage Lessons in Authority

30:51 The Influence of Horses on Youth

34:59 Building Confidence Around Horses

38:42 The Magic of Night Gardens

41:06 Meeting the Horses: A Special Moment

42:29 Embracing Our Dark Sides

45:20 Traveling and Parenting: The Balancing Act

49:33 Creative Processes and Writing Updates

55:54 Upcoming Events and Exciting Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss on their 80th episode, their recent travel adventures, book tours, riding experiences, and the importance of self-care and strategic planning in life and equestrian pursuits.

Join Heather and Natalie as they explore the joys and challenges of horse training, the magic of social media connections, and their personal adventures in travel and gardening. This episode offers practical insights, heartfelt stories, and a celebration of community and self-care.

Keywords

Travel, Book Tour, Equestrian, Riding, Self-Care, Planning, Family, Vacation, Book Promotion horse training, social media community, travel, gardening, horse training techniques, friendship, self-care, outdoor living, horse behavior, personal growth

Topics

1. Travel and vacation experiences
2. Book tour and promotion strategies
3. Riding and horse training updates Horse training techniques and philosophies
4. The role of social media in creating community
5. Personal growth through travel and hobbies

Chapters

00:00 Vacation Adventures and Family Dynamics

02:58 Travel Tips and Tricks

06:02 Hormonal Conversations and Health Insights

08:59 Book Tour Experiences and Author Insights

12:00 Community Engagement and Reader Connections

15:03 Self-Promotion and Balancing Work-Life

20:58 Riding and Equestrian Reflections

21:41 Navigating Change: Moving to a New Barn

23:01 First Ride Back: Overcoming Fear and Trusting Your Horse

25:32 Finding Balance: The Dynamics of Horse and Rider

27:50 Jumping Back In: The Excitement of Training

30:00 The Joy of Sharing: Introducing New Riders to Horses

31:57 The Thrill of Thoroughbreds: Rediscovering Athleticism

34:03 Engaging Training: Keeping Horses Interested

35:46 Innovative Training Techniques: Learning from Others

38:56 Building Trust: The Importance of Communication with Horses

41:57 Understanding Horse Behavior: The Pecking Order in the Barn

44:43 The Chaos of Horse Routines

47:15 Childhood Memories and Horse Barn Antics

51:08 Cruising Adventures and Culinary Experiences

54:40 Friendship and Community in the Digital Age

01:00:12 Balancing Travel and Relaxation

01:01:37 Gardening Dreams and Nature's Wonders

01:05:38 Bats, Mosquitoes, and Nature's Balance

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Most of us are terrible at setting boundaries around our time, body, and energy—until we realize the chaos we're avoiding by not doing it. Heather and Natalie share hilarious, brutally honest stories about life’s little emergencies, travel mishaps, and the unspoken truths of adulting that no one tells you. From DIY house fixes gone wrong, to the chaos of managing horses, kids, and career, they reveal how even the smallest wins—locking the door on time, sneaking out early from a concert, or saying no to a late-night meeting—are real acts of self-care.

In this episode, you'll discover: how to handle unexpected house emergencies without losing your mind, the surprising science behind regaining muscle after a break from riding, and why managing your energy—not just your schedule—is the key to feeling unstoppable. Heather and Natalie laugh through tales of travel chaos, barn battles, and the hilarious truths of juggling motherhood, horses, and personal growth. They break down simple routines to avoid disasters like plumbing leaks or missed flights, and share tips for prioritizing your well-being when life seems to conspire against you.

Perfect for overwhelmed women striving for balance, this episode offers practical, no-nonsense strategies to turn chaos into calm and guilt into grace. Whether you're trying to get back in the saddle, escape the morning rush, or simply find moments of peace in a busy life, Heather and Natalie remind you: you’re not alone, and a little adulting wins go a long way.

Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and inspiration—because sometimes, just surviving the week is a victory in itself. Get ready to laugh, learn, and feel empowered to take control of your chaos before it takes control of you.

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the emotional journey of homeownership, the chaos of book events, and the burdens of adulting. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences in the equestrian world, the importance of self-care, and the struggles of meeting deadlines in their creative pursuits.

The discussion highlights the balance between work and passion, the impact of weather on riding, and the common excuses that arise in their lives. Through humor and relatability, they navigate the complexities of their journeys as equestrians, authors, and individuals.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Homeownership and Personal Growth

02:58 The Chaos of Book Events and Author Life

08:51 Adulting and the Burden of Responsibilities

11:56 Excuses and Justifications in Equestrian Life

14:56 Finding Balance Between Work and Passion

18:05 The Impact of Weather on Riding

29:55 The Reality of Work-Life Balance

33:09 Networking and Collaboration in the Equine Community

36:15 Exciting Events and Opportunities in Lexington

47:11 Pursuing Education and Personal Growth

01:01:04 Travel Adventures and Future Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Keywords

homeownership, personal growth, book events, author life, fame, recognition, adulting, responsibilities, equestrian life, excuses, self-care, time management, writing, creative process, deadlines, work-life balance, equine community, networking, personal growth, education, parenting, time management, creative inspiration, travel, events, Lexington

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this lively episode, Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley Winch come together for a fun and chaotic discussion about their lives, adulting, and the equestrian world. They kick off the conversation with a humorous introduction, referencing their previous holiday hijinks episode and the idea of bringing chaos to their listeners through a live stream. The trio shares personal anecdotes, including Heather's recent experiences with Rice Krispie treats for dinner and the stress of closing on a house while preparing for the Westminster Dog Show. They also touch on the challenges of adulting, the weather, and the quirks of their horses, leading to a light-hearted exploration of their lives as horse enthusiasts.

As the conversation unfolds, the group welcomes surprise guest Nichole Chiciro of Horse & Rider, and dives into various topics, including the differences in their living situations, the absurdity of horse names, and the unique personalities of their equine companions. They share laughs over their horses' antics and the challenges of managing them in unpredictable weather.

The episode captures the essence of friendship, humor, and the relatable chaos of adulting, all while celebrating their love for horses and the equestrian lifestyle. In this lively episode, the hosts engage in a humorous and candid discussion about their experiences with horses, personal anecdotes, and the quirks of adulting. They share stories about their horses' personalities, particularly focusing on a mare who has strong opinions about her companions and life in general. The conversation flows into light-hearted banter about travel mishaps, the challenges of social media, and the joys of drinking and shopping. As they navigate through various topics, the camaraderie among the hosts shines through, making for an entertaining and relatable episode.

Keywords adulting, horses, equestrian, podcast, humor, chaos, horse names, weather, friendship, lifestyle, horses, adulting, travel stories, equestrian life, humor, personal anecdotes, horse personalities, social media, friendships, podcast

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Hijinks

01:52 Adulting Adventures and Chaos

05:55 Introducing Nichole and Her Background

10:01 Food, Drinks, and Equestrian Stories

13:59 Horse Mishaps and Personal Anecdotes

15:47 Horse Transformations and Quirky Names

19:32 Superstitions Around Changing Horse Names

21:02 Barn Fitness vs. Gym Fitness

26:01 Weather Woes and Equestrian Life

33:19 The Opinionated Mare

34:44 Travel Tales and Packing Tips

38:23 Nostalgia and Old Photos

41:10 Traveling with Style

48:41 Never Have I Ever: Equestrian Edition

49:23 Playing Never Have I Ever

52:11 Horse-Related Anecdotes

56:09 Caffeine and Cold Brew Conversations

01:00:26 Adulting Wins of the Week

01:01:39 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Us

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Natalie and Heather explore various themes related to self-care, equine care, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of equine expos, the importance of morning routines, and the balance between work and personal life. The conversation also delves into riding techniques, understanding horse behavior, and the significance of setting boundaries. With a light-hearted tone, they share personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the joy found in simple things and the power of authenticity.

Keywords

self-care, equine expos, horse riding, personal growth, boundaries, adulting wins, bitless riding, mare energy, confidence, sleep, work-life balance

Takeaways

1. Morning routines set the tone for the day.
2. Equine expos can be overwhelming but rewarding.
3. Riding techniques can improve with practice and patience.
4. Balancing work and personal life is essential for well-being.
5. Sleep is crucial for productivity and mental health.
6. Understanding horse behavior enhances riding experience.
7. Confidence in riding comes from practice and self-awareness.
8. Adulting wins can be found in small achievements.
9. Setting boundaries is important for personal growth.
10. Embracing the energy of mares can inspire strength and determination.

Chapters

00:00 Morning Routines and Self-Care

02:57 The Challenges of Equine Expos

06:01 Understanding Horse Behavior and Circadian Rhythms

09:03 Balancing Work and Personal Life

12:05 Planning for Family Adventures

14:57 Exploring Bitless Riding and Training Techniques

19:57 Understanding Riding Dynamics

27:55 The Importance of Body Positioning

32:15 Managing Anxiety and Riding Confidence

40:53 Living Arrangements and Personal Space

41:49 Building Confidence Through Horses

42:18 Learning Boundaries from Horses

43:24 Listening to Horses: A Case Study

44:48 Embracing Mare Energy

47:31 The Power of Mares in Performance

49:58 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth

52:00 Exciting Life Updates and Future Plans

54:38 Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures

56:56 Authenticity in Podcasting

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this special episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, "The Balanced Horse," Heather Wallace shares her journey and insights into becoming an equine massage therapist.

She discusses the challenges and rewards of the profession, the importance of proper education and certification, and the realities of running a small business in this field. Heather emphasizes the need for passion, dedication, and professionalism, while also providing practical advice for those considering this career path.

Tune in to learn about the intricacies of equine massage therapy and what it truly takes to succeed.

Follow Heather on Facebook and Instagram @animalbodyworknj and make sure to subscribe to Adulting with Horses on your favorite player!

In this conversation, Heather and Natalie discuss the chaos of the holiday season, the importance of giving attention to horses, and the challenges of managing horse health issues, particularly abscesses. They explore unconventional remedies, including the surprising suggestion of using sauerkraut for treating abscesses. The discussion highlights the community aspect of horse care, the learning journey involved in healing, and the personal wins they experience in their lives. They conclude with reflections on adulthood and the joys of being in their 40s.

Takeaways

1. The holiday season can be chaotic, especially for horse owners.
2. Horses crave attention and can exhibit health issues when neglected.
3. Abscesses in horses can be tricky to diagnose and treat.
4. Community support is vital in managing horse health.
5. Unconventional remedies can sometimes yield surprising results.
6. Learning about horse care is a continuous journey.
7. Sauerkraut may have unexpected benefits for treating abscesses.
8. It's important to stay proactive in horse health management.
9. Adulting brings its own set of challenges and victories.
10. Being in your 40s can bring a sense of freedom and confidence.

Keywords

horses, health, abscess, remedies, community, care, attention, lameness, holiday chaos, healing

Chapters

00:00 Navigating the Holiday Chaos

03:01 The Challenges of Horse Care

06:05 Abscess Adventures

09:01 Exploring Home Remedies

12:01 The Surprising Science of Sauerkraut

14:57 Lessons Learned from Lameness

18:03 The Journey to Recovery

22:06 Understanding Hoof Health and Bruising

24:10 The Importance of Daily Care and Treatment

25:40 Exploring Home Remedies for Abscesses

27:40 The Role of Ground Conditions in Hoof Health

29:32 Natural Remedies and Their Effectiveness

32:10 Learning from Experience: The Journey of Horse Care

35:30 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth

39:44 Celebrating Small Victories in Animal Care

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast