On this LIVE bonus episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie join with their podcast bestie, Ashley K. Winch and Sandy and Cara from Saddle Talk, newly on the HRN network.

Buckle up, folks! Today's episode is a cocktail of hilarious adulting adventures, horse tales, ghost exorcisms, and enough sarcasm to keep your spirits high. If laughter, good friends, and a little bit of horse chaos sound like your jam, this one's a must-listen.

• The chaos of Thursday night with kittens and cats conspiring against productivity
• Secret game reveal: drink every time someone says the magic word "hint it begins with an 'F'"
• Horse talk, Mustangs, and the art of turning bad decisions into epic adventures
• Spooky ghost tales and haunted houses, complete with flaming tornadoes and uninvited spirits
• Drinking, dating, and the hilarious truths about podcasting and friendship goals
• How to build a community without buying followers, just pure authenticity
• The scoop on upcoming horse radio network cruises and plans for Montana dude ranches
• The art of social media burnout and how to keep it real while promoting your passion

Stay tuned for that upcoming cruise! Book now, bring your friends, and prepare for two days at sea, Bimini, and plenty of margaritas.<|endofshow_notes|>

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

This episode is brought to you by pure chaos, cruise dreams, and the emotional journey back into the canter.

Natalie and Heather kick things off with the kind of live, slightly unhinged energy only horse people can sustain before coffee fully kicks in. They share big news about their upcoming “Hijinx on the High Seas” cruise, a five-night adventure packed with theme nights, happy hours, games, prizes, and all the shenanigans a horse-loving adult could want away from the barn.

Then the conversation turns to the real beast of the episode: cantering. Why does it suddenly feel scarier in adulthood than it ever did before?

Natalie and Heather unpack the mental blocks, balance issues, fitness struggles, horse behavior, and the deeply relatable experience of feeling like your body and your brain are both negotiating terms with gravity. They also remind us that sometimes the horse is doing exactly what they should be doing, and we’re the ones falling apart at the seams.

• Cruise announcement: “Hijinx on the High Seas”
• Why cantering feels harder as an adult amateur
• Balance, confidence, and rebuilding riding fitness
• Adulting wins: AC survival, dinner mishaps, and bargain burgers

If you’ve ever thought, “I used to love this gait, why am I suddenly terrified of it?” this one’s for you.

Upcoming Events:

July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more.

August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors!

November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center.

August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!)

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ever tried writing a novel between horse quarantines and housekeeper surprises? Welcome to the anthology of chaos, caffeine, and creativity! In this bonus episode of Adulting with Horses, you’ll learn how two authors navigate the wilds of writerly life — from the perils of distraction to the magic of whimsical garden spaces.

• How daily distractions — dogs, housekeepers, and the ocean — fuel or hinder writing progress
• The importance of hobbies outside of writing, from craft projects to garden adventures
• How to carve out those rare, precious two-hour writing blocks in a busy life
• The mental and physical toll of juggling multiple projects, from books to Cruise Ship gift exchanges
• The power of whimsy to keep creativity alive when life gets real
• Real talk about the grind, including timelines for books and the realities of editing and revisions

Upcoming Events:

July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more.

August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors!

November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center.

August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!)

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ready for a wild ride through the mundane and the magnificent? In this episode, Heather and Natalie explore everything from garden surprises to the joys (and chaos) of horse shows. Plus, how to survive the wild world of adulting without losing your mind. Expect laughs, lightbulb moments, and plenty of equine insights sprinkled with a healthy dose of humor.

Key Topics Covered:

• The joys of chaos gardening and accidental plant discoveries
• Real talk about horse show anxiety and the magic of persistence
• Balancing responsibilities, passions, and social lives as adult horse enthusiasts
• The surprisingly meditative nature of horses' daily routines
• Why daydreaming about trips and horse shows is actually good for mental health
• The absurdity (and necessity) of braiding and show prep
• How to manage anxiety, expectations, and maintaining authenticity around horses
• Offbeat insights into the lives of cats, dogs, and other beloved companions while traveling

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

• The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real self
• The wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary setting
• The importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world

00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think

00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content

00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life

01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster

05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes)

09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights

11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included)

13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan

15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances

17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse

19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises

22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets

24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule

28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image

33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it)

37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership

42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules

48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines

54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication

58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed

63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something

66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human

Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie embrace the chaos of modern life: they dish on everything from DVDs on a nostalgia kick to the madness of Kentucky cross country and barn cat obsession, all with their signature wit and humor.

• The lost art of DVDs and the nostalgia of physical media.
• Generational shifts: Elder Millennials, Gen Z, and the decline of patience.
• The wild world of Kentucky cross country — rain, retirements, and unruly dogs
• The chaos of balancing book launches, vacations, and pet rescue missions.
• Social media authenticity vs AI-generated content — how to stay real in a digital age.
• Kentucky's trade fair finds — from quirky product finds to the latest in equestrian gear.

For our special videos episode and bonus content, make sure to join our Patreon!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert for a lively and insightful conversation covering horse tack hoarding, saddle fitting, personal growth, and upcoming events. Discover practical tips, humorous anecdotes, and inspiring stories from the world of equestrian life.

Key topics

1. Horse tack hoarding and organization
2. Saddle fitting and maintenance
3. Personal growth and self-awareness in riding
4. Upcoming equestrian events and book launches

Chapters

00:00 Morning Conversations and Caffeine Fixes

02:52 Unpacking and Tack Hoarding

05:57 Saddle Pads and Comfort in Riding

08:57 Fashion and Functionality in Equestrian Gear

12:03 The Emotional Connection to Tack and Gear

14:57 Saddle Fit and Horse Comfort

19:35 Regular Care for Horses

22:07 The Joy of Matching Outfits

26:29 Teenage Lessons in Authority

30:51 The Influence of Horses on Youth

34:59 Building Confidence Around Horses

38:42 The Magic of Night Gardens

41:06 Meeting the Horses: A Special Moment

42:29 Embracing Our Dark Sides

45:20 Traveling and Parenting: The Balancing Act

49:33 Creative Processes and Writing Updates

55:54 Upcoming Events and Exciting Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss on their 80th episode, their recent travel adventures, book tours, riding experiences, and the importance of self-care and strategic planning in life and equestrian pursuits.

Join Heather and Natalie as they explore the joys and challenges of horse training, the magic of social media connections, and their personal adventures in travel and gardening. This episode offers practical insights, heartfelt stories, and a celebration of community and self-care.

Keywords

Travel, Book Tour, Equestrian, Riding, Self-Care, Planning, Family, Vacation, Book Promotion horse training, social media community, travel, gardening, horse training techniques, friendship, self-care, outdoor living, horse behavior, personal growth

Topics

1. Travel and vacation experiences
2. Book tour and promotion strategies
3. Riding and horse training updates Horse training techniques and philosophies
4. The role of social media in creating community
5. Personal growth through travel and hobbies

Chapters

00:00 Vacation Adventures and Family Dynamics

02:58 Travel Tips and Tricks

06:02 Hormonal Conversations and Health Insights

08:59 Book Tour Experiences and Author Insights

12:00 Community Engagement and Reader Connections

15:03 Self-Promotion and Balancing Work-Life

20:58 Riding and Equestrian Reflections

21:41 Navigating Change: Moving to a New Barn

23:01 First Ride Back: Overcoming Fear and Trusting Your Horse

25:32 Finding Balance: The Dynamics of Horse and Rider

27:50 Jumping Back In: The Excitement of Training

30:00 The Joy of Sharing: Introducing New Riders to Horses

31:57 The Thrill of Thoroughbreds: Rediscovering Athleticism

34:03 Engaging Training: Keeping Horses Interested

35:46 Innovative Training Techniques: Learning from Others

38:56 Building Trust: The Importance of Communication with Horses

41:57 Understanding Horse Behavior: The Pecking Order in the Barn

44:43 The Chaos of Horse Routines

47:15 Childhood Memories and Horse Barn Antics

51:08 Cruising Adventures and Culinary Experiences

54:40 Friendship and Community in the Digital Age

01:00:12 Balancing Travel and Relaxation

01:01:37 Gardening Dreams and Nature's Wonders

01:05:38 Bats, Mosquitoes, and Nature's Balance

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Most of us are terrible at setting boundaries around our time, body, and energy—until we realize the chaos we're avoiding by not doing it. Heather and Natalie share hilarious, brutally honest stories about life’s little emergencies, travel mishaps, and the unspoken truths of adulting that no one tells you. From DIY house fixes gone wrong, to the chaos of managing horses, kids, and career, they reveal how even the smallest wins—locking the door on time, sneaking out early from a concert, or saying no to a late-night meeting—are real acts of self-care.

In this episode, you'll discover: how to handle unexpected house emergencies without losing your mind, the surprising science behind regaining muscle after a break from riding, and why managing your energy—not just your schedule—is the key to feeling unstoppable. Heather and Natalie laugh through tales of travel chaos, barn battles, and the hilarious truths of juggling motherhood, horses, and personal growth. They break down simple routines to avoid disasters like plumbing leaks or missed flights, and share tips for prioritizing your well-being when life seems to conspire against you.

Perfect for overwhelmed women striving for balance, this episode offers practical, no-nonsense strategies to turn chaos into calm and guilt into grace. Whether you're trying to get back in the saddle, escape the morning rush, or simply find moments of peace in a busy life, Heather and Natalie remind you: you’re not alone, and a little adulting wins go a long way.

Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and inspiration—because sometimes, just surviving the week is a victory in itself. Get ready to laugh, learn, and feel empowered to take control of your chaos before it takes control of you.

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the emotional journey of homeownership, the chaos of book events, and the burdens of adulting. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences in the equestrian world, the importance of self-care, and the struggles of meeting deadlines in their creative pursuits.

The discussion highlights the balance between work and passion, the impact of weather on riding, and the common excuses that arise in their lives. Through humor and relatability, they navigate the complexities of their journeys as equestrians, authors, and individuals.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Homeownership and Personal Growth

02:58 The Chaos of Book Events and Author Life

08:51 Adulting and the Burden of Responsibilities

11:56 Excuses and Justifications in Equestrian Life

14:56 Finding Balance Between Work and Passion

18:05 The Impact of Weather on Riding

29:55 The Reality of Work-Life Balance

33:09 Networking and Collaboration in the Equine Community

36:15 Exciting Events and Opportunities in Lexington

47:11 Pursuing Education and Personal Growth

01:01:04 Travel Adventures and Future Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Keywords

homeownership, personal growth, book events, author life, fame, recognition, adulting, responsibilities, equestrian life, excuses, self-care, time management, writing, creative process, deadlines, work-life balance, equine community, networking, personal growth, education, parenting, time management, creative inspiration, travel, events, Lexington

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast