Advent is a season that asks us to face the tension between hope and fear - much like Bethlehem itself, the “House of Bread” and the “House of War,” where the Bread of Life was born into a world that was not yet as it should be. In this message from Robyn Elliott, we explore how God shows up in the shadows and in our waiting, turning the ashes of our lives into something sustaining and life-giving. Advent reminds us that Jesus comes not only to the beautiful parts of our story, but also to our deepest longings and pain, breaking through the darkness with quiet, resilient hope.

Discussion Questions:

1. How do you typically respond to waiting, and what does that reveal about your spiritual posture during Advent?

2. Where in your life are you currently waiting for God to break in or bring clarity? And are there places where you may have unknowingly put up walls to God’s presence or movement?

3. When you think of “ashes” in your life - places of loss, shame, or disappointment - what might it look like for God to make “bread” from them?

4. In what ways does the hurried, commercial Christmas season make it difficult for you to embrace quiet, reflection, and longing?

5. How does the theme of waiting connect with the larger biblical narrative of hope and expectation?

6. Bethlehem is described as both the “House of Bread” and the “House of War.” How does this tension reflect the world Jesus entered and the world we live in today?

7. What does the incarnation (God arriving in obscurity, poverty, and vulnerability) teach us about God’s character and the way He works?

8. How does Advent reorient us to a different way of being than the secular rhythms of December?

9. Robyn launched our Christmas Giving Campaign for this year as part of her message. There are three ways you can get involved. Which option resonates with you?