In this message from Jack Ninaber, we explore the often-overlooked faith and obedience of Joseph - the quiet, steady figure in the Christmas story whose actions shaped the arrival of Jesus. Joseph models compassion, surrender, and courage in the face of misunderstanding, showing us what it means to step faithfully into God’s mission even when it places us in the background. His life invites us to embrace Advent as a season of trust, patience, and quiet obedience.

Discussion Questions:

1. What does Joseph teach us about doing the right thing even when it may cost reputation, finances, or social standing? Have you ever faced a situation where doing the right thing made you look wrong to others? How did you process or endure that season?

2. Have you ever felt compelled to act out of duty or conviction even when your emotions didn’t align with the decision? What was that like for you?

3. In a culture where honour and shame played such a significant role, what risks did Joseph take in choosing the “quiet” option, and why might justice demand such restraint?

4. How does the angel’s message shift Joseph’s sense of obligation, from social and religious duty to participation in God’s redemptive plan?

5. Do you tend to follow God more out of conviction, love, habit, or a sense of duty? How does Joseph’s story challenge or affirm the way you live out your faith?

6. In what ways can following Jesus place us in positions where we appear foolish, misunderstood, or dishonoured, and how should we navigate that tension?

7. How do we discern when our sense of duty comes from God versus cultural, familial, or religious pressure?

8. What is an area in your life right now where doing the right thing feels difficult or misunderstood, and what might faithfulness look like for you in that situation?

Resources:

Whisper: How to Hear the Voice of God by Mark Batterson

Sacred Pathways: Nine Ways to Connect with God by Gary Thomas

Hearing God: Developing a Conversational Relationship with God by Dallas Willard