Advice on Daughters’ Marriage

Delivered by Dr. Mufti Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera at his daughter’s Nikāḥ

On the blessed occasion of his daughter’s Nikāḥ, Dr. Mufti Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera delivered a heartfelt and insightful talk titled “Advice on Daughters’ Marriage.” Speaking both as a father and as a scholar, he offered timeless counsel to women embarking on married life, as well as those already within it.

He reminded the audience that marriage is not merely a social contract but a sacred bond built on faith, compassion, patience, and mutual respect. Dr. Mangera emphasized the importance of nurturing one’s relationship with Allah as the foundation for nurturing a relationship with one’s spouse. He highlighted qualities such as kindness, gratitude, loyalty, and the ability to overlook faults as essential ingredients for a strong and lasting marriage.

Balancing scholarly guidance with fatherly warmth, he encouraged women to see marriage as a partnership of mercy and companionship, where both husband and wife play complementary roles in supporting each other’s spiritual and worldly journeys.

To conclude, Dr. Mangera read out a moving poem he had personally composed for the special occasion. The poem beautifully captured a father’s love, hope, and prayers for his daughter as she entered a new chapter of life. Its heartfelt words encapsulated the essence of his message—may marriages be filled with faith, harmony, and divine blessing.