Are we entering a new dawn of sexual liberation?

Aella is a model, camgirl, escort and internet personality. She has been one of the highest-earning models on OnlyFans, making up to $100,000/month. But what makes her a truly fascinating human is her highly analytical, curious and creative mind. Aella realised that no one was asking questions about sexual preferences in a systemic way. So she taught herself data science and created The Big Kink Survey which went viral online and has been filled out by over 1 Million people. The survey is now the most comprehensive dataset on fetishes, kinks, and sexual preferences.

Naturally, I was curious: What are women into according to the survey results? Turns out, there are fascinating patterns!

In this episode, Aella explained that fetishes are actually on a spectrum, just like sexual preferences. She talked about her "How to Be Good in Bed" blog series for men, her view on the future of the sex profession, the pros and cons of OnlyFans, her hot take on feminism, artificial wombs, psychedelics and much much more. 

(00:00) Intro

(01:12) The Big Kink Survey

(01:28) Understanding fetishes

(03:48) Women's fetishes

(12:08) Women's preference for violent porn

(16;51) Aella's sex parties

(18:51) Sexuality and creativity

(19:53) Aella's experience with social shame

(25:30) Spirituality

(30:32) OnlyFans trends

(32:20) Non-nude cam girls

(33:02) Male group psychology on OnlyFans

(34:04) Sex work and safety

(34:54) Escorting

(36:36) Aella's "Date Me" application form

(42:46) How Aella got into sex research

(43;59) New exciting survey Aella is working on

(48:03) Artificial Wombs and Feminism

Links:

Aella's Website - www.knowingless.com

Blog & Research - https://aella.substack.com/

To take the The Big Kink Survey - https://www.guidedtrack.com/programs/u4m797m/run

Twitter - www.twitter.com/aellagirl

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