Same vibe, but PART 2 energy. We get honest about what adulthood actually feels like once the illusion cracks: the constant second-guessing, the pressure to be grateful while still wanting more, and the weird guilt that comes with not loving the life you worked so hard to build. If you’ve ever thought, “Is this it?” while also knowing you should feel lucky… pull up a seat. Criss cross apple sauce, fam. The story continues.

We were told adulthood would look a certain way—stable job, perfect relationships, clear direction. But what if the real problem isn’t adulthood… it’s the unrealistic expectations we inherited?

In this episode, we unpack the silent pressure to “have it all together,” why everyone feels behind (even the people who look ahead), and how comparison culture quietly ruins contentment. If you’ve ever wondered why life feels heavier than it should, this conversation might be what you need to feel better! Criss cross Apple sauce, Fam! It’s story time! 

It’s been a while since we’ve done an AITA episode! Laughing at the wrong moment. Saying what everyone’s thinking. Not pretending a joke is funny. This episode dives into AITA stories where no one meant to be cruel — but their reaction changed everything.

From laughing at a friend’s childhood bullying, to calling out entitled behavior abroad, to refusing to finish stories after being interrupted, we unpack how honesty, humor, and boundaries can backfire fast. Sometimes you don’t do anything wrong — you just fail to read the room. Criss cross apple sauce, Fam. It’s story time!

This episode breaks down what a friendship breakup really is and why it’s barely talked about — even though it can hurt as much (or more) than a romantic breakup. We normalize outgrowing people in your 20s and 30s and remind you: nothing is “wrong” with you for changing.

We dig into:

• how growth shifts who you align with

• signs you’ve outgrown a friendship

• feeling drained, small, or inauthentic after hanging out

We also explore slow fade vs intentional closure, and the unique grief of losing someone who’s still alive…and posting about it. Finally, we talk healing, acceptance, and creating space for friendships that actually fit who you truly are and who you're becoming. Criss cross apple sauce, Fam! It's story time!

2025 taught us a lot—but some lessons came with baggage we’re not carrying into the new year. In this episode, we’re calling out the habits, mindsets, and behaviors we’re officially leaving behind in 2025 and sharing the goals we’re locked in on for 2026. If you’re ready to protect your peace, set real boundaries, and show up for your life louder than ever—this one’s for you! Criss cross apple sauce, Fam! It’s time to ring in the new year RIGHT!

Ask & you shall receive! You asked about our Christmas traditions & wanted to hear them from Deison & Donnie. So, for our last episode of the year, we sit down with Deison & Donnie Dumps to talk about our favorite Christmas memories—from traditions that stuck, to gifts that shocked them, to the little things that felt huge at the time. We revisit Christmas mornings, family inside jokes that refuse to die, and the unspoken “roles” everyone played once December hit.

In this episode:

* The first Christmas details our kids still remember

* Traditions that made our holidays feel unmistakably ours

* The gift they never thought they’d get

* What Christmas morning meant then vs. now

* The parent moves we didn’t know were working

* The moments that became permanent family lore

* ...and MORE!

If you’re parenting through the holidays—or missing the ones that shaped you—this episode is for you. Criss cross apple sauce, Fam! It’s story time!

The White Elephant game is not for the weak. We break down what actually makes a good White Elephant game, why feelings always get hurt & secondhand embarrassment ensues, and why once stealing starts, all friendships are temporarily suspended. From unwanted gifts to ruthless steals—yet this holiday Hunger Games somehow remains a tradition we refuse to let go of. Criss cross, apple sauce, Fam! It’s story time!

In this deeply honest Inbox Episode, we’re diving into our Lil Ant Army real-life stories—the heartbreak, the healing, the hard choices, and the beautiful glow-ups that come after. From grief and going no contact, to walking away from toxic situations, to finally choosing yourself and your dreams… this episode is about reclaiming your power and finding the people who help you rise. Criss cross apple sauce, Fam! It’s story time!

December tells us we’re supposed to be joyful. Social media is glowing, group chats are full of cheer, and everything feels wrapped in pressure to be merry. But what if your real life doesn’t match the highlight reel?

In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional weight of the holidays—the comparison, the grief, the stress, the loneliness, the exhaustion, and the quiet sadness that often gets hidden behind twinkling lights and forced smiles.

We dive into:

• Why there’s so much pressure to pretend everything is joyful in December

• How comparison culture hits hardest during the holidays

• Why social media makes it feel like everyone else is doing it “right”

• What it looks like to give yourself real permission to not be okay

• We also share a small, practical way to create comfort this week—without forcing happiness or fake cheer.

If your holidays feel heavy, complicated, or emotionally mixed, this episode is for you. Your holiday doesn’t need to be picture-perfect. It just needs to be honest.

Final Reminder:

Your feelings are not a problem to fix — they’re a story to listen to.

BONUS EPISODE! Y'all! We don't normally do this but we wanted to give you a special surprise because we are so grateful for your love & support! This is Part 2 of Tait's National Bodybuilding Competition. You're getting all the BTS from our weekend in Las Vegas & Tait's pursuit of 1st Place! Cris cross apple sauce, Fam! It's BTS time!