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99% of Affairs do not happen due to someone wanting sex… They happen when emotions are aroused that are not being nurtured or met. 

 

 

Most emotional affairs blindside you…3 WAYS

 

First there is admiration - builds a mood altering experience.

 

Second you start to desire to be around them because they change your mood.

 

Third your day is FOCUSED  ON fighting the mental desire to always think of them… you become more mentally entangled:

  -  What if I had married them or they married me?

  -  How much my life would be better?

  -  If my spouse dies I would marry them?

BUT AT SOME POINT YOU RECOGNIZE YOU ARE IN AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR…

 

 

*COMMERCIAL BREAK: TWO THOUGHTS!

(*Outside of a 1 night stand)

THOUGHT 1

The first affair is always about these 2 things:

Comfort and Distraction. 

 

LADIES: Why do men like seductive clothing on women?

Comfort and distraction… 

A guy can be having he worst day in the world until a set of boobies comes along! 

Are you (regardless of married or single) feeding a mans weakness by how you dress!  

 

 

 

THOUGHT 2

 

50% of all first time affairs happen during pregnancy or during the first year of the birth of the child. WHY?

A pregnant or nursing mom is a volcano of oxytocin, dopamine, phenylthylamine, endorphins etc… 

She is HAPPY, VIBRANTS, GLOWING AND BONDING WITH HER NEW BORN.

The husband is feeling aroused and neglected.

WHEN IS A HUSBANDS BRAIN AROUSED AT ITS HEIGHT?

During sex when the wife is into it, responsive, affectionate… 

THIS IS BONDING…

You can have sex and not bond and it is frustrating to the husband. 

 

SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION?