Marriages and Promise Ring holders are endlessly questioning their trust in relationships. These are some extremely uncertain times. If we stand in pools of doubt, I don't mind pulling the lens back to identify how the world tends to play not my monkey not my circus. What we do in life is always under the shadow of another person's doubt. Not my monkey not my circus. That seems to be how we define God. My God versus another person's relationship with the universal power. Not my God not my problem. How are you treating your monkey?