We are being weighed down! Lost paths, stolen ambitions and misguided answers turned into stones. Our guts are full of anxiety. Our hearts poisoned by the presence of other people's dreams coming true, but yours aren't. We use unfair mechanisms called comparison by way of innocently using judgement as a guide. Pull the camera lens back. Stop focusing in on what we think the real story. Most of us have never walked a mile in another person's shoes. Reflection is a great tool but only if it's not associated with jealousy and competition.