This week on After Dark, Jess and Jack talk about tops and bottoms. We debunk common myths and stereotypes, talk about the differences between the ways queer men and queer women use the terms, and the relationships between top/bottom and dominant/submissive and masculine/feminine.

Jack talks about why he wants you to be vers (and it’s not for the reason you think), and we give some tips (just the tip) to newcomers to gay sex about how to figure out if you’re a top or a bottom.

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