March Madness Self Love : Discernment is Self Love & So Is Removing People , No one person is  designed to be battered, picked at or bullied , tormented, gaslit constantly and sabotaged or harassed and humiliated , whether its an acquaintance, spouse, or  a combination of toxic workplace , environment , marriage , or  dating  violence or repeat  crossing the line of decency  series of coordinated abusive  and extreme  toxic events or  crimes  aggressed against that change us and who we are individually. An act of self love and preservation and  self respect is  removing those toxic individuals and or marriage or if you cant leave an environment , remove the key  factors that create the  discord and upset or  damages with no remorse. Even if its a workplace or organization, you don't have to stay where you clearly don't belong, not everyone  likes toxicity or  drama or  people or environments that create or thrive on that  type of  energy.