There are some memories you never really outgrow.

The football games.
The arguments over “E SCORE!” and “E NO SCORE!”
The friends you thought would always be around.
The little moments that felt ordinary then, but somehow became some of the memories you carry forever.

In this episode of AFTER SILENCE, I go back to my childhood — primary school, JSS, secondary school, football, friendship, rivalry, growing up, and the little moments that made those years unforgettable.

This one is personal.

This one is nostalgic.

And maybe, somewhere in the story, you’ll remember a version of yourself you haven’t thought about in a long time.

 AFTER SILENCE
Episode 4 — THE LAST TIME WE WERE CHILDREN

Listen. Remember. And keep moving.

Sometimes…

Life doesn’t break you all at once.

It tests you quietly.

Through disappointments.
Through unexpected conversations.
Through silent walks.
Through moments that make you question everything.

This episode begins with a movie called Black Beauty but ends somewhere much deeper.

It’s about the lessons I found in movement, the peace hidden inside a quiet place, an ordinary Friday that changed my perspective, and why I believe some hearts are built like Mustangs.

Maybe…
just maybe…

you have one too.

Welcome to AFTER SILENCE.

— Tefla

Growing up, my Yoruba was never perfect.

Some people laughed.
Some people judged.
Some assumed I didn’t understand.

For years, I wondered if speaking Yoruba fluently made someone “more Yoruba.”

In this episode, I share my journey of insecurity, identity, growth, and why I’m proudly Yoruba despite my imperfections.

This isn’t just a story about language.

It’s a story about accepting who you are while never being afraid to keep learning.

And somewhere in the story there's a challenge for anyone who think pounded yam has competition in the food market.

Welcome to AFTER SILENCE. 

What happens when a simple thought refuses to leave your mind?

In this first official episode of AFTER SILENCE, I share the story behind how this podcast was born... from a sleepless 3 a.m. moment, to listening to a podcast that inspired me, to the text message that made me realize this dream could actually become real.

This isn’t just the beginning of a podcast.
It’s the beginning of a conversation.

So find a quiet place, relax, and let’s talk.

If this episode speaks to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Welcome to AFTER SILENCE. 

Welcome to AFTER SILENCE, a storytelling podcast by Tefla. Real stories, real moments, and honest conversations about friendship, love, university life, mistakes, growth, and everything in between. New episodes every week.