A frank, funny, heart-level guide for anyone who keeps loving hard and landing hard. It’s Complicated: God’s Design for Relationships in a Swipe-Right World opens with Aim Before You Swipe—a message for the exhausted and the hopeful: God called “alone” not good, culture keeps moving thegoalposts, and you don’t need another almost—you need a steady target.

We walk from Eden to your DMs: place, purpose, provision, identity, and boundaries before the person; why TikTok can’t be your therapist; and how letting God fill your life makes the lies float, not sink. If you’ve tried vibes, vision boards, andvanishing acts, this is the reset: let God set the aim, then love from fullness, not famine.