In this episode of Believe in People: Addiction, Recovery & Stigma, Mel shares a powerful and deeply honest account of her journey through alcohol misuse, escalating substance use, mental health struggles, and the non-linear path toward recovery.

Growing up as a triplet in a family where drinking was normalised, Mel describes early identity struggles, belonging within pub culture, and how her use escalated in Brighton – from drinking to dangerous encounters with dealers and a chaotic lifestyle that felt increasingly out of control. A moment of clarity in Spain shifted everything.

Mel reflects on the complexities of giving up alcohol while continuing to use cannabis, the emotional roots behind her coping behaviours, and how recovery eventually took shape through boxing, community, medication, 12-step fellowships, and building a personal sobriety toolbox that actually works.

This is a grounded, practical, and compassionate story about rebuilding identity, finding strength in healthy routines, and learning what recovery really looks like beyond abstinence or expectation.

In this episode:

• Growing up as a triplet and early identity conflict
• Pub culture, belonging, and escalating use in Brighton
• Drinking, cannabis, dealers, and unsafe situations
• The moment of clarity in Spain that shifted everything
• Boxing as a recovery tool and protective factor
• Community, fellowship, medication, and building a sobriety toolbox
• The reality of non-linear recovery and self-compassion

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