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My queen.

We need to talk about "alignment."

Because yes, it's real. And also? It gets blamed for a lot of shit that isn't alignment at all.

In this episode I'm unpacking the difference between true misalignment… and the kind of "this doesn't feel aligned" that's really just:

• I'm scared to be seen

• I don't want to pick wrong

• What if I can't replicate my last big month

High-achieving women loooove to call fear "misalignment" because it sounds evolved. It sounds intuitive. It sounds spiritual.

But sometimes it's just avoidance with better branding.

We're talking about:

Why growth and fear can feel almost identical in your body How waiting for perfect clarity is secretly self-doubt Why "alignment" becomes a ceiling when you don't trust yourself And the real flex: choosing… and then backing yourself so hard that it becomes aligned

Because here's the truth no one says loudly enough:

When you trust yourself, there is no wrong choice.

You make a decision. And then you make it the right one.

And if this hits? You already know what's next.

FUCK THE CEILING.

Or to get access to a meditation for decision-making, join Healing Haus.