What if the people who frustrate us, challenge us, and require our patience are not interruptions to our spiritual formation, but part of the way Jesus is forming us?
In Matthew 18, Jesus turns his attention to the life of his disciples together. He speaks about humility, conflict, reconciliation, and forgiveness, revealing that becoming his people necessarily involves learning how to love particular people—not simply loving our neighbors in the abstract.
In this episode, we explore Christian community as a “school of the Lord’s service” through the wisdom of the Rule of St. Benedict and the reflections of Thomas Merton. Benedict reminds us that holiness is learned in the ordinary circumstances of shared life, while Merton helps us recognize the people and situations we might prefer to escape as some of the very places where God is at work in us.
Together, Matthew, Benedict, and Merton invite us to ask a different question about Christian community: not simply “What am I getting from these people?” but “What kind of person is Christ making me through them?”
We explore the practices of humility, bearing with one another, forgiveness, reconciliation, and stability—and consider how a community being formed in the love of Christ becomes itself a witness to the Kingdom.
Jesus forms us through the people he has given us.