Are our emotions shaped—and even expanded—by technology, or are we just becoming more disconnected and manipulated online?

Dive into this episode as Kate O’Neill and Pamela Pavliscak explore the complicated emotional landscape of the digital world and what it truly means to “stay human.”

Topics Covered

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All the Feels: How to Stay Human in the Digital World
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Episode Chapters
00:00 Introduction & Heart of the Conversation
01:40 What is the Future of Feelings in Technology?
02:25 Why Emotions Matter in Design
04:43 A Butterfly Story: Tech & Personal Grief
05:17 Early Tech Optimism vs Today’s Realities
07:39 Debunking Myths About “Screen Time”
10:00 Diaries and Meaningful Online Experiences
12:55 Metrics Beyond Time: How to ‘Measure’ Digital Well-Being
14:46 Shame, AI, and Tech Purity Culture
18:04 Individual Responsibility vs Systemic Change
20:17 Living in a Tech Ecosystem: What Do We Do Now?
20:33 Emotional Life on the Internet vs. Emotional Life with AI
24:17 Navigating Social Norms with Generative AI
28:41 Are Neo Emotions Expanding Our Feelings?
36:37 Why Does Outrage Rule the Internet?
39:09 Persuasion vs. Manipulation in Emotional Interfaces
42:28 Should Tech Be Accountable for Emotional Harm?
45:00 Needed: Guardrails for Emotionally-Aware AI
49:35 Staying Hopeful & Staying Human
51:36 Outro & Where to Find the Book