This week we are joined by Patrick Holbert! Patrick Holbert is a former TV producer-turned-standup comedian who has appeared on Sirius XM, TruTV, The Travel Channel, and was the host of the internationally syndicated TV show “The Movie Loft” for two years. The New York Times called him the “charming M.C.” of the children’s variety show he helmed for multiple tours.

An accomplished director, camera operator, and video editor, Patrick has produced several comedy specials and docmentaries for nationally touring headlining comedians in the last few years. His own special, Qualification, is out on Amazon and Apple TV.

Patrick resides in the Bushwick section of Brooklyn with his wife and two daughters (one human, one canine). When he’s not on stage, you can catch him online co-hosting his podcast “We Hired a Sitter For This.”

In this conversation, Patrick Holbert shares his experiences with social awkwardness, parenting, and the role of alcohol in shaping his social identity. The discussion explores the complexities of navigating social situations, the journey from shyness to becoming a more outgoing person, and the impact of societal expectations on personal authenticity. Patrick reflects on his childhood experiences, the influence of alcohol on his social interactions, and the normalization of drinking culture in New York City. Patrick shares his journey from being a sober high school student to navigating the complexities of drinking in college, the consequences that followed, and ultimately his decision to get sober. He discusses the role of therapy and support groups in his recovery, the challenges of maintaining sobriety, and how it has positively impacted his relationships and career in comedy. Patrick emphasizes the importance of community and support in the recovery process, as well as the ongoing struggle with ego and the desire for validation. Give this episode a listen!

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