"How did you end up with someone like that?" "How did you end up in a domestic violence situation?" People always want to know. There were a number of factors that played a part in leading me towards someone that had plenty of red flags. This episode covers how an incident in the Army, a failing marriage, feeling lost, overwhelmed, and desperation became the perfect concoction for missing the signs. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains details that may be difficult for some listeners. Discretion is advised.