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In this episode of Decode Him: Dating in the Digital Age, we dive into the emotional chaos of the 3-month mark—when everything was going great… until it wasn’t.

Our listener, Confused but Caring, writes in about a guy who was all-in at first—daily convos, consistent dates—but now? He’s taking longer to text back, and she’s wondering if she’s being clingy or if he’s just slowly fading out.

Sound familiar? Yeah, it’s the shift—and we’re unpacking it with brutal honesty.

🔥 You’ll learn:

• Why men start to pull back around month three
• What "slow replies" actually signal
• How to respond without looking desperate
• The difference between showing interest and chasing validation
• And how to stop overfunctioning in a situationship he’s not even earning

If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or like you’re the only one putting in effort—this episode is your wake-up call. No fluff. No games. Just the raw truth about where you stand and what to do next.

🎧 Hit play and stop decoding his texts—start decoding his behavior.

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