Most of us have never said those words out loud. But we've lived with them. They’ve shown up in the chances we didn't take, the times we didn't speak up, and the version of ourselves we kept small just to feel safe.  

In this episode, Nicole Morris sits down with Coach, Trainer, and Author Loren Sanders to explore one of the quietest, most persistent narratives in the human experience: the belief that who you are, as you are, simply isn't enough.  

Together they trace where this belief comes from, how it seeps into our decisions, our relationships, and our sense of self — and what it looks like to interrupt it. Loren brings the perspective of someone who has not only studied this work but lived it, and her book Empathy is Not a Weakness: And Other Stories from the Edge is a testament to what becomes possible when we stop leading from lack.  

This is a conversation for anyone who has achieved something and still feels behind. Who has given everything and still questioned their worth.  

You are not alone in this. And you don't have to stay there. 

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