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Am I Having a Quarter Life Crisis? (Purpose)


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Purpose, identity, comparison, career pressure, and the quarter-life crisis; why finding direction feels harder than assembling IKEA furniture.

We're diving headfirst into purpose; why it matters, why everyone is confused about it, and why your quarter-life crisis isn't a glitch… It’s a feature.

Welcome back to Trauma Agora, the only podcast where three semi-functional adults unpack life’s existential crises so you don’t spiral alone.

We get into:

• Why your 20s/30s feel like one long identity crisis

• The “money vs meaning” dilemma (and why neither guarantees happiness)
• When goals are actually yours vs implanted by capitalism, Instagram, or your mum
• Designer handbags, 10K months, and the emptiness of chasing milestones
• Red Pill Jake™ making an appearance (we’re so sorry)
• ADHD, neurodivergent burnout, and why “finding your purpose” is a privilege, not a personality
• Children, motherhood pressure, and why saying “I don’t want kids” is still treated like a crime
• The Harvard study on relationships and purpose
• Why purpose isn’t a job title, it’s a way of living

Oh, and a brief disclaimer:

This podcast is not financial advice. Especially if you’re eating beans on toast to buy Dior. Looking at you, Nina.

 

The big question:

Do we really have one purpose, or are we allowed to have multiple lives, multiple goals, and multiple selves?

Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just in your Saturn Return.

 

Q&A:

Q: What if I don’t know my purpose yet?

A: Congratulations; you’re a normal adult. Purpose evolves with you. There is no final form.

Q: Is purpose about career, money, or success?

A: Sometimes. But purpose can also be friendships, creativity, contribution, rest, or simply being present. Your job title is not your destiny.

Q: Can you have more than one purpose?

A: Yes. You’re not a Marvel character; you’re allowed multiple arcs.

Q: What if everyone else seems ahead of me?

A: They’re not. They’re just posting more.

Q: How do I start figuring out my purpose?

A: Remove expectations, follow your values, and ask: what would I do if money didn’t matter?

 
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