It would snow the day I become exclusive. Many of us end up going on dates and developing strong feelings towards someone in which we hope to be in a committed relationship with , but things just end up going south. This is a controversial conversation I had to have with myself. And I decided that I needed to stop being concerned about being in a relationship and that I needed to focus on the relationship I have with myself instead. I am dateable ,just not right now. And that is okay :)