Village Vets

Another Stogie and a Cocktail


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The cameras are barely warmed up, someone’s late, and we’re already arguing about consent to start a podcast—then the night takes off. Birthdays get messy, church announcements turn into résumés, and a simple “how was your weekend?” breaks open a bigger question: what do we really owe our people, our kids, and ourselves when the world is loud and the lines are blurry?

We go straight at the “girl dad” paradox—player’s curse or protector calling—and stay there long enough to admit the contradictions. Can a dad who “knows the game” keep his daughter safer by teaching it? Do moms who think like a man and act like a lady translate the playbook faster? From there we push into TikTok-era truth: kids learn early, so we have to teach earlier, clearer, and without shame. The church moment spirals into a richer point about motives, status, and humility, while a hot take about “all women are hookers” gets unpacked down to intention, incentives, and the difference between care and price.

Then the room splits on friendship. Can men and women be just friends? Some say there’s always a card face down on the table; others say boundaries and honesty keep the game clean. Heartbreak is the pivot: a few of us got quiet enough to admit we caused our own pain, changed our approach, and started to heal. Others swear men don’t heal—they harden. Either way, that bruise reshapes you: what you expect, how you attach, where you draw the line. We even try on the future—AI flings, dolls, chatbots—and why frictionless “love” can’t teach you repair.

It’s loud, funny, and unfiltered, but the throughline stays steady: accountability, growth, and choosing people on purpose. If you want real talk on parenting, dating economics, platonic rules, heartbreak recovery, and whether tech can substitute for skin-to-skin connection, press play and ride with us. If you feel seen—or strongly disagree—share the episode, rate the show, and drop your take. We’ll read the best ones on air next week.

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